Is a broad leaving her dude to be with you the same as her cheating?

[The Burger King]

I'm not exactly sure if that's what happened, so just hear me out before you start calling me a scumbag and shyt.

There's a cute Mexican broad I've known since my junior year in high school. I didn't know her that well in High School, but I do know that she has always had a thing for me.

Now, we go to the same community college, and we have classes together. We started casually talking last semester, but she had a boyfriend at the time.

I could tell she still liked me, and I told her that I couldn't be hanging out with her knowing she had a boyfriend. She said that she understood, and we just kept it friendly from there on out. By "friendly" I mean, just a "hey" when we saw each other in the hallways and stuff, and a small conversation about our classes every here and there. I could tell she was kind of disappointed, but, she kept it casual like I asked.

I have a class with her semester, and today she stopped me after class, and told me that she left her boyfriend.

I could tell from the first time I met her that she liked me, and that she still does. But, I don't think she ever had any intention on cheating with me.

What do you brehs think? Should I go for it, or smash and throw her in the bushes?

 

[SDW Mindset]

If she will do it with you she will do it to you

 

[Taadow]

Once he gone -
then it's on.

 

[Couth]

Date her, but don't wife her. Just feel her out and let things move at their own pace. She sounds like a hoe though breh. She woulda cheated with you if given the chance. Girls aint loyal anymore.

 

[DreadHead P]

Either way you shouldn't trust the bytch

 

[NOSaintsFan02]

Me thinks you're overthinking. It's not "cheating". If she left her boyfriend solely to be with you then yes, it's fukked up, but that's the game sometimes. He'll move on to better things and you and her might have something special, or maybe yall won't. Who knows. But if you feeling her then it's stupid not to pursue it. Don't overthink it, the Coli might say "Oh she's dirty, it means she'll do it to you blah blah blah" but fukk, every relationship is different and has funny ways of going about it.

 

[NOSaintsFan02]

Date her, but don't wife her. Just feel her out and let things move at their own pace. She sounds like a hoe though breh. She woulda cheated with you if given the chance. Girls aint loyal anymore.

Now that's a valid "What if". She may have indeed cheated on her bf if you stayed close to her while she was with him.

But, I atleast give her some credit for leaving him before she made a move on you, as fukked up as it may be. But maybe their relationship was already falling off and it had nothing to do with you . Life ain't always traditional brehs.

 

[WaveGang]

in and out like a robbery , you'll thank me one day

 

[Ashley Banks]

yes

 

[Justise M]

the girl and her boyfriend probably naturally broke up and OP so self consumed that he thinks it was over him

 

[MikelArteta]

Nothing wrong with networking

 

[2-Digit]

I wouldn't get too invested in it. Could be very well that the boyfriend dumped her for another chick and now maybe she's willing to use you to make him jealous. Chicks don't like their ego tarnished, and will almost immediately say they did the dumping, even if it was the other way around. Not saying that's the case fam, just going by experience in life. Guard yourself homie.

 

[Cat piss martini]

you have until she's 25 and the curse of the nacho
kicks in where her shoulders get wide,them cheeks square
out and that gunt is sitting pretty.
enjoy the experience while you can.

 

[8====D]

such a stupid question. . .if she left her man, then that means she single!
how would you getting with a single female be considered cheating?
slap your parents for raising such a moron


(eternal neg)

 

[MJ Truth]

If she's "leaving her man to be with you" that means that y'all apparently had some kind of relationship developing while she was with the other guy... and yeah, that shyt is scandalous. Whether or not you feel it's "cheating" per se or not is irrelevant, you don't want that karma in your life, breh.

And why would you want to BE with a woman who would do that anyway? Don't be shocked (in fact, EXPECT it) when that same thing happens to you.