Is anyone else afraid of Sex?

SeveroDrgnfli

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Terrified!!!
They always start with that labored damn breathing, staring, squeezing real hard, grunting, twitching, cussing, and leaking bodily fluids.
Scary shyt.:hamster:




But I just be brave :ld:
You need to learn to communicate your needs. I managed an adult store and talked to many girls with sexual anxiety and some had never had an orgasm from penetration. Grown ass women. shyt blew my mind. I feel bad for people who don't know how good sex can be. The intimacy of it is great and fukking someone until you both can't move anymore is hella fun.

Have you been in a long term relationship?
If not afraid, just anxious?
Everytime i meet someone new, I get this anxiety.
Am I the only one?
I don't get it. You get scared when you meet new people or you get scared when you sleep someone new? How old are you?
 

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Lol but for real tho, there is a slight nervousness but i havent been scared since i lost virginity.
Just gotta find someone who cares enough to make sure ur relaxed and comfortable when ya'll about to do the do. Drinking a lil wine or taking a shot even smoking weed if you do that will warm ur body up and help you be not so afraid. But everyone is different.
 

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im afraid of a woman laughing at my schmeat :sadbron:

I wanna laugh but that would make me a hypocrite since the same thing runs through my mental damn near everytime I'm close to having it away with a new chick too. :sadcam: However I've found from early on in my sexual career, once I set the tone/pace with mildly aggressive foreplay that focuses directly on her arousal and pleasure which doesn't give her a chance to start exploring myself, pull them drawers off with my teeth and put in work.........she ain't worried about the size of my joint at all. Heck, more than half the time she basking in that post cunlingual haze and she ain't got time to look at the size of my shyts she just like
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:blessed: You ain't got to be god damned Mandingo to please a regular woman. You gotta find out from early if she a size queen directly or indirectly though if you know you swinging with an aggressively average bat like myself.
 

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If you're anxious, you first time is not gonna be as good as if you were looking forward to it. When you are scared, you stay tense, your p*ssy stays tense and sex can be painful.

Deep breaths and lots of foreplay. Make sure you have nada to worry about and fully trust your partner.
 

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Lol but for real tho, there is a slight nervousness but i havent been scared since i lost virginity.
Just gotta find someone who cares enough to make sure ur relaxed and comfortable when ya'll about to do the do. Drinking a lil wine or taking a shot even smoking weed if you do that will warm ur body up and help you be not so afraid. But everyone is different.

Hook me up with a cousin or something

:damn:
 
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