Is anyone here terrible at dealing with someone crying?

[flea]

A while back a coworker of mine was telling me how her husband kept beating their son because he was doing some gay shyt. She's going into detail saying "he just kept hitting him and I kept telling him to stop and he tells me "he's a boy, he's gonna stop fukking crying, I didn't raise a faggit" and then she burst out crying. I am the worst person if u need a shoulder to cry on. I'm telling her "ey man wtf u doing? stop that shyt! Stop fukking crying, hold that shyt in " I can't flea!! I've never been the "aww come here girl" and embrace someone with a hug. shyt feels gay. I'm not a therapist

 

[Boogie]

A while back a coworker of mine was telling me how her husband kept beating their son because he was doing some gay shyt. She's going into detail saying "he just kept hitting him and I kept telling him to stop and he tells me "he's a boy, he's gonna stop fukking crying, I didn't raise a faggit" and then she burst out crying. I am the worst person if u need a shoulder to cry on. I'm telling her "ey man wtf u doing? stop that shyt! Stop fukking crying, hold that shyt in " I can't flea!! I've never been the "aww come here girl" and embrace someone with a hug. shyt feels gay. I'm not a therapist

Could've been in them guts.

 

[flea]

Could've been in them guts.

Na she was a fat slob

 

[Paradise]

Most men say they don't know what to do or say. Its not gay! What's gay about being emotional. Most men are raised to "suck it up and be tough." I would never tell my son that he couldn't be emotional crying is natural. Some of you guys need to go get in touch with your feelings.

 

[Freedman]

Shid bro when most people start crying I don't know how to react I usually just get an erection

 

[Raptor]

Shid bro when most people start crying I don't know how to react I usually just get an erection

 

[Knuckles Red]

OP this is a spin off of this thread: http://www.thecoli.com/threads/does-seeing-your-gf-wife-partner-cry-turn-you-on.335949/ you made up that bullshyt story so you could create this thread. But to answer your question, no I'm not good with consoling people. I don't even know how to deal with my own issues. Much less somebody else's.