I agree with the bolded, that's why I asked wanted to specifically ask for yours.
For me when someone says they're pro-black, my expectation is they're doing something that advances our cause or helps our community. Simply marrying and having children doesn't accomplish either in my view, those are person life and (I suppose) legacy decisions. I'm not saying you have to be an activist or dedicate your life to serving the community, but regularly doing something that isn't inherently/primarily self-serving would be the bare minimum.
Then my precise remarks weren't directed at you.
Understood. I responded to set the record straight which wasn't necessarily directed @ anyone in particular.