Is "being the bigger person" some hoe shyt?

MaxPain

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there's no reason to fight anyone, especially another breh, past the age of 25.

learning conflict resolution is key.
Yeah remember that time I whacked u upside the head with a newspaper for peeing in the house:Denzelcrackinup:

U had no choice but to be the bigger person

Or me & ur baby mother will see to it that you’d be sleeping in the shed for the night.
 

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No. It’s the right thing to do.
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But I personally know my limits so I have become very careful at identifying bullshyt and actively avoiding it. The sheer amount of political savvy I’ve utilized to avoid Ls is :whoo:
Buts it’s my way of being accountable to myself. I don’t walk blindly into situations and I don’t tempt myself by engaging in nonsense. I don’t start with people, I’m very slow to anger and I always give people the benefit of the doubt. I look for every path to reconciliation and can’t hold a grudge to save my life. I’m oriented towards resolution.
I take all of these steps to avoid fukkery and thus I rarely get into a lot of trouble.

But the flip side is that, b/c I put so much effort into avoiding nonsense, I feel completely justified in fukking u up if u try to hurt me. And I’m not talking about a commiserate reaction. Nah I want you utterly broken. It doesn’t feel right until I see tears and dismay. Until I see u on that ledge and I whisper in ur ear “do it...u won’t be missed.” It’s like I become the living embodiment of justice for that person that wasn’t looking for trouble and still got fukked with. It’s an abomination of the teacher in me. You gotta learn a cosmic lesson for fukking with me. And if u survive learning this lesson, you will never forget it.

Once I’ve broken u...then we can take steps to become friends and reconcile and the forgiveness can begin. Restorative justice. Ill talk u off the ledge. I’ll come visit u in the hospital and feed you ur food through your straw. Hell we’ll be BFFs by then. :yeshrug: Everything’s resolved and we right as rain.
 

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No. Being smart is best.

Dude wanted to fight, I said fukk that. I realized this fight was negative, win or lose for me. He was jealous & I had nothing to gain. If I woulda stabbed him I'd be in prison, not posting.

I wasn't necessary trying to be the bigger person. But I realized him being on hoe shyt could ruin my life.

Situation.

Were there other people around?
Cause that's where the pressure really comes from...percieved or real.
 

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Depends on your situation

I have a house, kids and wife

I have a lot to lose and I’m Not trying to fukk someone up or get my ass kicked just to go jail

If you don’t though

It is kinda a bytch move

I used to scrap like crazy
 

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Were there other people around?
Cause that's where the pressure really comes from...percieved or real.
They weren't at the moment but it was personal shyt about my ex so everyone was gonna find out regardless. I don't give a fukk what my peers think so that wasn't a concern. I just decided I wasn't going to jail again on some fukk shyt. My people know me as a good dude/father/worker.

Basically her new man want to fight & I'm like :umad: :lolbron::camby:. He wanted to flex off his ego cause he knew she'd rather be with me. He wants to fill my shoes but never can. Want to be like family but isn't. Jealous shyt. I carry & sleep with knives. He ain't worth my freedom.

Edit: That's me in my Avi with one I sleep with. I call her Magma.
 
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If someone lays a finger on me then they have to die but other than that nothing really gets to me my life is too great.

I also do not tolerate verbal disrespect so I have to check nikkas if I feel disrespected.
 
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