"He bought the DLC"
Is being the first guy to treat her right a good thing?
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Dwayne_Taylor
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Lol, it usually means you're not her type and she's probably not attracted to you. It won't last long and you're wasting your time....might as well pack it up
these type of girls are better off with emotional doormat type dudes that let them run rampant like a pig in a barnyard. no consequences for their actions or responsibility to uphold.. they can be free to wreck havoc on the world around them instead of having to do the work to become a more complete person with the ability to discern right from wrong.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
If she's over 25, lol nah. You're going to be fighting her demons and a decent chance you will get nothing from it.
IIVI
Superstar
There are a lot of incredible people with bad circumstances.
Life isn’t always peaches and rainbows.
I guess every man who’s been in shytty relationships is washed too?
The answer is it depends. Use good judgements and don’t jump to dumb conclusions on stupid logic.
Many of these lead to the “She got away” lonely stories.
Life isn’t always peaches and rainbows.
I guess every man who’s been in shytty relationships is washed too?
The answer is it depends. Use good judgements and don’t jump to dumb conclusions on stupid logic.
Many of these lead to the “She got away” lonely stories.
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what do you think it means to "treat her right"¿*
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Well, most of us aint trying to be with men. So we aint worried if they're "washed" or not.
IIVI
Superstar
I lean on the side of good logic at the end of the day.
I don’t think the original statement is good logic nor factually correct.
The answer is it depends.
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GoPinheiro
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It's not a good situation, especially if she's over 25 and has dated a few ain't shyt dudes before. Don't compete with guys from her past who did nothing for her, mistreated her, and still smashed multiple times. My main rule is to always avoid these scenarios.
Don't put yourself in a position where you could possibly be competing with an absent guy from her recent past. Trust me, I've been that absent guy at times and still had access to her, despite the good guy consistently treating her good and always being present.
Now, if she hasn't experienced a lot because she hasn't dated much and due to being focused on her education or dreams, that's a different story. In that case, treating her right can earn you a lot of points, we are talking about a lot of respect and loyalty.
I’ll share my perspective I had with a chic in college like this.
She had a lot of trust issues with me despite knowing I wasn’t messing around.
I was asleep one day she was at my crib, and I woke up from my nap and she was on the phone in the living room with her girlfriend telling her she finally found “a good one” and she wasn’t gonna “lose this one.”
She was very needy and possessive. She would show up unannounced and she couldn’t drive because she had epilepsy. She would either walk to my place or catch a taxi.
She would find ways to create an argument just to create unnecessary drama because she was not conditioned for peace.
Peace instead of chaos signaled to her something was wrong.
She was fine as hell. Even my own mother commented on her figure when I introduced her to my family.
Her sex game was insane
and it seemed as if she was rewarding me with great sex because I “put up” with her constant drama.
I remember vividly the day I knew it wouldn’t last. We had just finished having sex and she legit asked me if I was okay with a woman that would give me push back and not always be agreeable. 
I told her, “You’ve met my mom and grandmother and you saw the type of women they are. They are quiet and laid back women, and drama free.”
She gave me the
At that moment I knew deep down inside
it was over.
It was tough because she was heads over heels for me. Even my college buddies to this day joke about how in love she was with me, and how could I brake it off because she fine as shyt!
They just didn’t know she told me about her past relationship where old boy had her borderline about to be admitted to a mental health facility because of what he took her through.
My advice, it ain’t worth it unless they have had a few years of no sex, no relationships, etc and a deep spiritual transformation with God.
Good luck!
She had a lot of trust issues with me despite knowing I wasn’t messing around.
I was asleep one day she was at my crib, and I woke up from my nap and she was on the phone in the living room with her girlfriend telling her she finally found “a good one” and she wasn’t gonna “lose this one.”
She was very needy and possessive. She would show up unannounced and she couldn’t drive because she had epilepsy. She would either walk to my place or catch a taxi.
She would find ways to create an argument just to create unnecessary drama because she was not conditioned for peace.
Peace instead of chaos signaled to her something was wrong.
She was fine as hell. Even my own mother commented on her figure when I introduced her to my family.
Her sex game was insane
and it seemed as if she was rewarding me with great sex because I “put up” with her constant drama.I remember vividly the day I knew it wouldn’t last. We had just finished having sex and she legit asked me if I was okay with a woman that would give me push back and not always be agreeable.
I told her, “You’ve met my mom and grandmother and you saw the type of women they are. They are quiet and laid back women, and drama free.”
She gave me the
At that moment I knew deep down inside
it was over.
It was tough because she was heads over heels for me. Even my college buddies to this day joke about how in love she was with me, and how could I brake it off because she fine as shyt!
They just didn’t know she told me about her past relationship where old boy had her borderline about to be admitted to a mental health facility because of what he took her through.
My advice, it ain’t worth it unless they have had a few years of no sex, no relationships, etc and a deep spiritual transformation with God.
Good luck!
