Context.
Is this coming from a dude who was knee deep in puss for so many years in his life... to where he now has the serenity and clarity to be indifferently apathetic about giving a fukk...
(skill)
Or a lifelong introvert virgin to never step out of his comfort zone and finally grow some sizeable cahones and do something about his lame sex life?
(weakness).
There's levels to the attitude.
Depends on life experience and circumstance.
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