Is it ever a good idea to move in with your girl?

[Piff Perkins]

I don't care if you're a woman or a man - don't move in with anyone unless you got an exit strategy and the means to be independent. You never know what can happen. You don't want to be at the mercy of whoever you're living with. They can kick you out. Especially if you're a chick moving in with a dude...if he's cheating what do you do?

Always have the ability to bounce.

 

[DamienWayne]

Depends but usually no, she can kick u out.

 

[African Peasant]

You don’t believe in doing this as a precursor to marriage?

It will fukk up your relationship. Most non married couples that live together never marry and split up.

Living with someone is not easy; it asks a lot of sacrifices.

When you get married, you accept to make sacrifices because there is a higher goal you're pursuing, which is founding a family. That's why you get married. Those things justify AND compensate the hardship of living with a woman.

When you're not married, you don't have that psychological barrier. You end up facing all the bad aspects of your girl without a reason to stay. People date for fun and pleasure. Living with the personn kills the fun.

Also, living with the girl without being married creates a limbo. It's like a marriage but it's not a marriage. There is no reason to fix a deadline for marriage. It's like a marriage without being one. People just waste their time till they get bored of each other

If you're ready to marry a woman, wait to be married to live with her. The fukkery of living with her for the first time is ,nothing compared to the general fukkery of marriage.

But if you' re ,not married, there is no reason to bother yourself with her presence 24/7. Living with a woman is a weigh and a limit to your peace that you should only accept if you decide to create a family.

 

[kaiOogway]

No.

The only reason to live with a woman is if you're married to her.

Other than that, you're playing yourself

This

 

[GhettoTeK]

No I don’t like it personally

 

[SNG]

I mean if you live with a chick before marriage it shows you if you guys can live together instead of being surprised after year of marriage that your incompatible. But I honestly I wouldn't mind being married and my wife having her own spot and me having mine or us sleeping in seperate rooms since I'm a person that loves my space.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

It will fukk up your relationship. Most non married couples that live together never marry and split up.

Living with someone is not easy; it asks a lot of sacrifices.

When you get married, you accept to make sacrifices because there is a higher goal you're pursuing, which is founding a family. That's why you get married. Those things justify AND compensate the hardship of living with a woman.

When you're not married, you don't have that psychological barrier. You end up facing all the bad aspects of your girl without a reason to stay. People date for fun and pleasure. Living with the personn kills the fun.

Also, living with the girl without being married creates a limbo. It's like a marriage but it's not a marriage. There is no reason to fix a deadline for marriage. It's like a marriage without being one. People just waste their time till they get bored of each other

If you're ready to marry a woman, wait to be married to live with her. The fukkery of living with her for the first time is ,nothing compared to the general fukkery of marriage.

But if you' re ,not married, there is no reason to bother yourself with her presence 24/7. Living with a woman is a weigh and a limit to your peace that you should only accept if you decide to create a family.

interesting

 

[daiquiridream]

Me and my ex would still be together if I never let him move in with me last year. I just hated his apartment. But it only lasted for six months because he let the power get to his head. The power of having so much more access to me than before.

Don’t do it unless u are sure they respect your personal space and are not manipulative. Because living together gives them more opportunities to bother u. Home is supposed to be you’re happy place to get away from the hostilities of the world.

 

[Coli Bot]

Only if you're financially stable and won't be left homeless when she kicks you out.

Don't be one of them brehs heading back to your mama's house, with all your shyt in a Hefty bag

This was me

 

[Coli Bot]

It will fukk up your relationship. Most non married couples that live together never marry and split up.

Living with someone is not easy; it asks a lot of sacrifices.

When you get married, you accept to make sacrifices because there is a higher goal you're pursuing, which is founding a family. That's why you get married. Those things justify AND compensate the hardship of living with a woman.

When you're not married, you don't have that psychological barrier. You end up facing all the bad aspects of your girl without a reason to stay. People date for fun and pleasure. Living with the personn kills the fun.

Also, living with the girl without being married creates a limbo. It's like a marriage but it's not a marriage. There is no reason to fix a deadline for marriage. It's like a marriage without being one. People just waste their time till they get bored of each other

If you're ready to marry a woman, wait to be married to live with her. The fukkery of living with her for the first time is ,nothing compared to the general fukkery of marriage.

But if you' re ,not married, there is no reason to bother yourself with her presence 24/7. Living with a woman is a weigh and a limit to your peace that you should only accept if you decide to create a family.

nikka just broke down my last relationship and opened my eyes as to what went wrong


Go on and take these imaginary reps I don't have to give you.

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

Let my girl use my key while she was "visiting" she kept that shyt after leaving. I think she is on some scheme type vibe. Eyes open

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

The most yall should be doing is extended stay fukk sessions imo

You get a feel for how they are, you get to keep your own crib and still keep the relationship fresh before you go towards that next step.

Be sure to be a man about that next step tho

 

[Him]

It will fukk up your relationship. Most non married couples that live together never marry and split up.

Living with someone is not easy; it asks a lot of sacrifices.

When you get married, you accept to make sacrifices because there is a higher goal you're pursuing, which is founding a family. That's why you get married. Those things justify AND compensate the hardship of living with a woman.

When you're not married, you don't have that psychological barrier. You end up facing all the bad aspects of your girl without a reason to stay. People date for fun and pleasure. Living with the personn kills the fun.

Also, living with the girl without being married creates a limbo. It's like a marriage but it's not a marriage. There is no reason to fix a deadline for marriage. It's like a marriage without being one. People just waste their time till they get bored of each other

If you're ready to marry a woman, wait to be married to live with her. The fukkery of living with her for the first time is ,nothing compared to the general fukkery of marriage.

But if you' re ,not married, there is no reason to bother yourself with her presence 24/7. Living with a woman is a weigh and a limit to your peace that you should only accept if you decide to create a family.

 

[fkthisgaysite]

I will never do this. Mom nem drove me wild. I need to be able to kick yo ass out.

I can't live wit nobody for too long unless they dont talk much. I start noticing a person's lil tendencies, patterns and flaws.