Is it ever the cheated's fault?

[Ness]

Is it fair to look at sumthin the cheated wasn't doing as a reason the cheating happened? Or are cheaters gon cheat regardless?

I feel like there's a certain lack of respect, control, and empathy in the act of cheating, that to me is not rly attributable to the relationship's situation.

Not saying someone that has cheated has all those charactheristics in the general sense, but at the time it happened they basically saw an opportunity to do sumthin, and took it.

Cuz the way I see it, the options to either work on it or leave are always present.

 

[Ness]

Bump

 

[Colicat]

Cheating is the cheater's fault.

Period.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Why cheat, when you can just break up? It's stupid and greedy. They want to have their cake and to eat it too, or they want to prevent the guilt and shame by hiding it.

If you are no longer happy and have put in effort to make it work, if it's no longer working. Just break up.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

nah

 

[Neuromancer]

Why cheat, when you can just break up? It's stupid and greedy. They want to have their cake and to eat it too, or they want to prevent the guilt and shame by hiding it.

If you are no longer happy and have put in effort to make it work, if it's no longer working. Just break up.

Yeah.