Is it fair to never have kids again after one terrible baby mama situation?

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Always wondered what people thought about this.

Should a 30-40 something guy try again with a new woman or countdown till the 18 year sentence is over and live the single life?
 

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Always wondered what people thought about this.

Should a 30-40 something guy try again with a new woman or countdown till the 18 year sentence is over and live the single life?
Depends on the situation, there are too many variables to stereotype this answer
Income
How are things with first child/mother
Age of second woman, etc
 
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Depends on the situation, there are too many variables to stereotype this answer
Income
How are things with first child/mother
Age of second woman, etc
I'm not really talking about me but for scenario purposes

Let's say a guy had a kid early, the co parenting situation is shyt, the kid is nearing 18 and the guy is like 38-39...is it better to get back out there with any woman (I know the coli brehs all date young pawgs) but knowing any slip up and the trauma can happen again for 18 more years
 

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I'm not really talking about me but for scenario purposes

Let's say a guy had a kid early, the co parenting situation is shyt, the kid is nearing 18 and the guy is like 38-39...is it better to get back out there with any woman (I know the coli brehs all date young pawgs) but knowing any slip up and the trauma can happen again for 18 more years
Like the poster said above, too many variables come into play. And just to be honest, after your 1st baby mama you should know if the next woman is crazy or not.
 

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It’s crazy to hear stories of terrible situations people are in with the parent of their kid, but people won’t ever stop having sex raw. In fact, people are derided for it. So weird.
 
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It’s crazy to hear stories of terrible situations people are in with the parent of their kid, but people won’t ever stop having sex raw. In fact, people are derided for it. So weird.
I haven't had really any unprotected sex since my 1st issue. I'm counting down the years but I'm not as unhappy about it as I was in the past

It helps to be ugly gang to help with not getting no pregnant again
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It's not fair to children to have them with a woman who will only be a baby mama. Looking for a new baby mama after the last one went so well ain't the move. Why's she only good enough to be a baby mama and not a wife? Or what's wrong with you to only see her as a baby mama and not a wife? Either way, a child isn't going to make the situation any better.
 

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It's not fair to children to have them with a woman who will only be a baby mama. Looking for a new baby mama after the last one went so well ain't the move. Why's she only good enough to be a baby mama and not a wife? Or what's wrong with you to only see her as a baby mama and not a wife? Either way, a child isn't going to make the situation any better.
Don’t read brehs. Man was clearly talking bout making family. Not just a kid with a random person.

He was saying after having a child with someone who it doesn’t work out with, is it hard to have another one with the possibility that it might end the same way
 

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Don’t read brehs. Man was clearly talking bout making family. Not just a kid with a random person.

He was saying after having a child with someone who it doesn’t work out with, is it hard to have another one with the possibility that it might end the same way
Ain't gotta read, the question in the OP was enough to warrant my response.

Edit: you doesn't always refer to the OP.
 
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