Is it immature to ghost a b1tch or explain why you hate her fukkin guts?

Tony D'Amato

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It’s better to explain. Maybe they will take head to some or all of your venom and eventually become a better person. Otherwise you set the next breh up for failure.
See I feel like it makes me look weak and emotional to explain. I almost feel a position of power by just ghosting
 

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You refer to her as a "b1tch" so I assume you have zero respect for her.

So why are you on the coli on a Friday night asking if you owe a so called "b1,tch" an explanation?

Now THAT makes you look weak.

If this was about a woman you respect , it would be a different story.

I could see sitting her down and explaining things.
 

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U owe no one nothing or a reason
I ain’t explaining nothing to a grown woman

Figure the fault for yourself and holla at me when ya mind right or don’t
This. Same way you are not entitled to anything from her.

You’ll leave the bytch thinking and it’ll drive her nuts. Plus you’re not saying anything you can’t take back if you change your mind or wanna hit her up for a nut if you have a dry streak
 

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both can be the immature way to handle something, both can be the mature way to handle something

sometimes it's in between.


you should probably just go measure dikks til you pass out tho fakkit.
 

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After a certain age I think it’s weak to ghost folks. Folks need to use their big boy/ big girl words. Unless a person poses a threat why not explain why you don’t fukk with them. If their frowsy .. you chose them .. so it says something about your picker as well. You don’t owe folks a thing but common courtesy still goes along way .. and you know .. karma and shyt.
 

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After a certain age I think it’s weak to ghost folks. Folks need to use their big boy/ big girl words. Unless a person poses a threat why not explain why you don’t fukk with them. If their frowsy .. you chose them .. so it says something about your picker as well. You don’t owe folks a thing but common courtesy still goes along way .. and you know .. karma and shyt.
I don’t believe in karma but I co sign, unless op doesn’t give a shyt about her give them some closure
 

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If things have progressed to the point that you never want to speak to the person again, an explanation isn't necessary.

In my eyes, you talk when you want to change things or when you want acknowledgement from the person.
 
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