Women are never going to give you straight forward answer on this, and this line of thinking is partially the reason why.
You want a woman that fukks you like a pornstar, sucks the soul out of you, cooks 3 course meals, washes your dirty draws, and cleans up behind you while only having 2-3 sexual partners over the duration of her life.
It doesn't work like that she learned those skills she performs on you in the sack from somewhere. Probably trial and error on several men. It hurts some men's ego that other fellas were sliding up in their woman before they came along but it's the reality.
Some fellas probably even some in here are sharing their lady with another man right now and don't know it. Women are much more savvy in knowing how to move in discreetness than most fellas.