Is it just me or....

[Nuke Dukem]

Is dating a female with a kid a HUGGGEEE no no...

I can't do it.. I can't see myself dating a woman & having to be responsible for another mans mistake..

Add on that most baby dads can fukk the mother with little to no effort


Maybe I'm just old (27) but I can't do it...

 

[LordTaskForce]

i would only do it if i had a kid on my own. other than that

 

[Rawtid]

If you don't have children you shouldn't date women with children.

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

this is probably the most overdone topic on the boards but i'll chime in...

i've done it and won't do it again...i'd smash a chick with a kid but never date seriously because..

im selfish. i gotta come first plus the b/d has the power to fukk up her whole day and yours with one phone call i can never give another man that power over my relationship....plus many (not all) woman have a that Oedipus complex with their kids. Like you see them on social media with tons of pics with their kids "this is the only man i need" "i don't know what i'll do with my kid" blah blah it just screams im lonely as hell and depressed deep down so i'll have this relationship with my kid (nothing sexual) just treat them as a partner type than their kid

also as a dude it's harder to date a woman with a kid because the kid is usually always with the mother so she gotta find a sitter to go on dates so you can't really do anything spontaneous and shyt ....a girl dating a guy with kids is easier he got the kid every weekend maybe every other if that...

there's more downside but that's the major issues i have

 

[Nuke Dukem]

this is probably the most overdone topic on the boards but i'll chime in...

i've done it and won't do it again...i'd smash a chick with a kid but never date seriously because..

im selfish. i gotta come first plus the b/d has the power to fukk up her whole day and yours with one phone call i can never give another man that power over my relationship....plus many (not all) woman have a that Oedipus complex with their kids. Like you see them on social media with tons of pics with their kids "this is the only man i need" "i don't know what i'll do with my kid" blah blah it just screams im lonely as hell and depressed deep down so i'll have this relationship with my kid (nothing sexual) just treat them as a partner type than their kid

also as a dude it's harder to date a woman with a kid because the kid is usually always with the mother so she gotta find a sitter to go on dates so you can't really do anything spontaneous and shyt ....a girl dating a guy with kids is easier he got the kid every weekend maybe every other if that...

there's more downside but that's the major issues i have

Damn... You hit every single point in the head...


The fact the BD can fukk up hers and your day with one phone call-- truest shyt ever.. fukk all that

 

[360dagod]

nikka trying to burn souls today

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

this is probably the most overdone topic on the boards but i'll chime in...

i've done it and won't do it again...i'd smash a chick with a kid but never date seriously because..

im selfish. i gotta come first plus the b/d has the power to fukk up her whole day and yours with one phone call i can never give another man that power over my relationship....plus many (not all) woman have a that Oedipus complex with their kids. Like you see them on social media with tons of pics with their kids "this is the only man i need" "i don't know what i'll do with my kid" blah blah it just screams im lonely as hell and depressed deep down so i'll have this relationship with my kid (nothing sexual) just treat them as a partner type than their kid

also as a dude it's harder to date a woman with a kid because the kid is usually always with the mother so she gotta find a sitter to go on dates so you can't really do anything spontaneous and shyt ....a girl dating a guy with kids is easier he got the kid every weekend maybe every other if that...

there's more downside but that's the major issues i have

When you peep it from that angle

 

[O.T.I.S.]

It depends. I've seen it done and I've done it before


Not the ideal situation, but if you've never done it before it's safe to say you don't have a real base to form your opinion.



Yeah a b/d could call to fukk something up, but a lot of the times if it's just one kid, the b/d is out the picture for the most part. He dipped out and she's pretty bitter (or grateful) about it.

Plus I like kids and usually they like me back. I'm pretty playful and have niece's/nephews and younger siblings so I'm comfortable around kids.

I think if you're dating a woman with multiple kids its when you have a serious problem. One kid is nothing imo

 

[Jhoon]

This is a topic that has only been discussed briefly on this forum. Thank god there's a thread where brevity will not be an option.

Is there a certain loser I can @ that will be able to pontificate on this topic and not sound tired?

 

[MikelArteta]

i'd date a widow whose husband died of natural causes.

 

[MikelArteta]

This is a topic that has only been discussed briefly on this forum. Thank god there's a thread where brevity will not be an option.

Is there a certain loser I can @ that will be able to pontificate on this topic and not sound tired?

look at this fakkit

 

[Jhoon]

look at this fakkit

Let's keep in on subject breh. Can you detail why dating single women is a bad idea? How do you feel about women with children dating? Be concise and direct.

 

[Sekhmet Anubis]

I wouldn't have a problem dating a man with a child. I love children. But just as long as his child's mother isn't crazy. This topic has been discussed plenty of times before. Some of you act like single moms make up the majority of the dating pool.

 

[CHILLL]

What we need is a eat a booty gang section separate from all this long talk.