IS IT OKAY FOR YOUR LADY TO TAKE THE LEAD??

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

Y'all need to have a 'Come to Jesus' meeting. Lay the finances out. Ask him about his money goals and show him yours then build a path on how to get there.

Make sure he knows you love him and support whether he is the breadwinner or not.

A word of caution. Most men like to control the household. One way some men do that is through the "I make the check I make the rules" argument. When he loses that power it can play with his pride and may require a readjustment period.

I agree with you 100% on this. And I've tried in the past to sit down with him and make a plan to save but honestly that shyt is like pulling teeth

I got so tired of arguing and dealing with his attitude when it comes to money that I gave up.....

As much as I love him he has a huge problem with authority and a fear that someone is trying to tell him what to do...

 

[dontreadthis]

I agree with you 100% on this. And I've tried in the past to sit down with him and make a plan to save but honestly that shyt is like pulling teeth

I got so tired of arguing and dealing with his attitude when it comes to money that I gave up.....

As much as I love him he has a huge problem with authority and a fear that someone is trying to tell him what to do...

he short?

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

he short?

No. He's 5'11

 

[AtomicUse]

If she's leading me into the bedroom.