Is it racist to not find certain races attractive ?

[Noname2014]

Whether it's white not finding black people attractive or black people not finding asians attractive, etc.

Do you think people "can't help" what they are attracted to? Or is it generalizing a what a whole group of people look like based off race.

Be honest , Do you get offended when people don't find the race you are attractive ? (Skin, race, hair )

 

[Bumblebreh]

 

[TransJenner]

I mean yeah I guess kinda but

 

[Thanos]

I don't date white people, No one has come at me with pitchforks.

 

[mortuus est]

no, its not racist

you cant like or fancy everything

 

[NotaPAWG]

attractive in what way? you can find someone attractive physically but stick to your own race for cultural reason. majority of people, races of people, whatever.. date and are attracted mostly to their own because that is who they are surrounded by most and have cultural similarities to.

i think it’s a bit weird for non black people to not find one black person attractive, though. but i don’t think it’s weird for black people to feel that way about other races for historical reasons. i’d completely understand why a black person wouldn’t find white people or non black peoples attractive due to white supremacy and racism.

and no, i don’t really get offended.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

No, date whoever you want.

 

[I Really Mean It]

I'm not attracted to Asian women, barring the rare exception.

 

[Couth]

Yea. That probably is racist according to the text book defintion.

But i dont think having preferences makes you a bigot.

I prefer black women or women with black features. I'm not attracted to white features. Doesn't mean i hate white people, i just dont like looking at them.

 

[Dr. Acula]

At the end of the day if someone is not attracted to a particularly race for what can be classified as racist reasons, does it matter?

I wouldn't say being attracted to a specific race is racist. Attraction is very much a base level thing for human beings and if you're attracted to a particular type and not to another, it is what it is. You often cant control what gets your motor running.

Someone can dismiss a particular race from dating for ignorant or racist reasons for sure. But let's say that is the case. Ok now what? Do you want to shame them or have to work to try and make them be attracted to you when they wouldn't be into you on their own volition? Why would you want to do that? Especially if they act not based on genuine attraction for you but because they were effectively argued into liking you.

I will say this, if a chick for example isn't into black guys, just saying I'm not interested enough. People make up white lies or hold back informatiin as a courtesy all the time not to be rude. On one hand if a chick specifically says "I'm not into black guys" I'll be like ok whatever and keep it moving but there is a certain level of disrespect in that sense in that it's not enough to just say I'm not interested, I'm going to let you know I'm not interested because you're black .

Either way though, when it comes to dating it's still best that a potential partner is upfront and geniunely into you and it's best not to even waste a second with someone who might not be attracted to you for whatever reason including race.

 

[hostsamurai]

You're not going to get thrown in jail for saying you don't like PAWGs or PAAGs or latinas. Do whatever you feel is right because the opinions of those who don't pay your bills are worthless.

On another note, I like all women yet not to the extent as if I was a non-black. There's probably a racial evolutionary biology buff that makes your own race's women more attractive.

Like all women and everything, but if I really think about it, my subjective perfect 10/10(impossible) woman is probably black.

 

[hostsamurai]

attractive in what way? you can find someone attractive physically but stick to your own race for cultural reason. majority of people, races of people, whatever.. date and are attracted mostly to their own because that is who they are surrounded by most and have cultural similarities to.

i think it’s a bit weird for non black people to not find one black person attractive, though. but i don’t think it’s weird for black people to feel that way about other races for historical reasons. i’d completely understand why a black person wouldn’t find white people or non black peoples attractive due to white supremacy and racism.

and no, i don’t really get offended.

There are a lot of nikkas and PAWGs into race play, though I guess they're more c00ns than regular black people.

 

[Gold]

No, and anyone who says otherwise doesn't have a grasp on what racism actually is

 

[MikeyC]

Yes.

 

[K.Dot]

No unless it's your own, then you are a c00n