I've listened to enough bullshyt from my sister and cousins to know to never ask them a thing about relationshps.
Example:
Older brother: I asked this girl out twice but she's had to do her hair both times.
Me: Breh, she don't want you, move on
Sister-in-law: Noooo! Keep trying, if you really feel strongly about her, she'll come around
Sister: Don't give up on true love!
Me:
And those are the women I trust.
They will literally tell my brothers things that I know for a fact that they don't believe or look for in a man.
The only honest one I know is my mom. She won't bullshyt when it comes to relationship advice. "Get a big house, get a nice car, don't ever let a woman see you cry." She knows about being a man than most men do.......
