Is it worth dating in your early 20's

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Breh, you are in college, what did you expect with women at that age, why are brehs talking about relationships and marriage when they just hit their 20s.
nothing wrong with being in a relationship when your 20/21 breh
 

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If y'all college nikkas were smart y'all would start a business now and by the time yall get older y'all will be established
 

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nothing wrong with being in a relationship when your 20/21 breh
That's not my point, breh is talking about women being wild and in a hoe phase, im saying of course, they want to have fun just the fellas do at that age, op basically answered his own question in his post, he can find a good girl in her early 20s but this was an obvious answer in that women will settle down "the hoe phase" as they get older.
 

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I'd say work on yourself but be open.

You don't wanna meet the right girl but be absolutely terrible/clueless at relationships.

I was a complete a$$hole in my late teens/early 20s and would have blown it w/ my current girl if I met her a relationship or two ago.

If you find someone that's pretty and sparks your interest, why not take them out?

Just don't do the thing where you're blowin money tryin to smash thots. Take care of your business, smash cheaply if you're gonna be about that life, and be in a relationship if you're gonna be in one.
 

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There are women in there early 20's that are relationship material. The real question is do you care enough to put in the effort to find one or not? I think all single adults should be at least open to relationships instead of choosing to shut themselves off for multiple years and potentially missing out on good catches even if the catches are rare to find.
 

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Yes. It teaches people social skills, how to compromise and negotiate, what they will and will not tolerate, what they like and don't like. Each relationship teaches you a lesson to take with you into the future.

It also teaches you resilience. You can't give up with every bump in the road. You have to keep getting ba k out there.
 

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Yes. It teaches people social skills, how to compromise and negotiate, what they will and will not tolerate, what they like and don't like. Each relationship teaches you a lesson to take with you into the future.

It also teaches you resilience. You can't give up with every bump in the road. You have to keep getting ba k out there.
 

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There are women in there early 20's that are relationship material. The real question is do you care enough to put in the effort to find one or not? I think all single adults should be at least open to relationships instead of choosing to shut themselves off for multiple years and potentially missing out on good catches even if the catches are rare to find.
honestly i feel like i'm ready to take the chance to put myself out there. i know i can do it. i just got out of a four year funk of self loathing and depression. I feel like theres potentially good people out there that id be good for and that id click with. its just a matter of me putting in the work to improve myself. i believe that i definitely would potentially be beneficial to someone.
 
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