Is it wrong to cheat if your wife stops giving you some?

[Colicat]

"Good morning, Shirley and Steve, I have a serious problem. I have been married for 4 years now, and we have a 3-year old son. Everything has been going well: we both make good money, take trips often, she lets me hang out with the boys with no problems, and vice versa.

I spoil my wife all of the time. She gets whatever she wants. I take care of our son, cook, clean, while she goes out with her friends, sometimes every weekend. Here’s the problem: she’s stopped having sex with me. I don’t know why. We have tried talking about it, we have even gone to therapy. Nothing works. I’m a Christian man, so I’ve prayed about this, but nothing has changed.

Then, I met A Breath Of Fresh Air: she is single, beautiful, friendly, and likes to have sex. We started out as friends, but the more I opened up to her, the more she’s received me: literally. She is WONDERFUL IN BED, and I never have to want for anything with her, sexually. She doesn’t want me to leave my family; she is just helping me out through a rough spot. I don’t even know what to do about my marriage. Having sex with my wife is extremely important.

Steve, I KNOW you understand what it’s like to have sex with your wife. That’s all I want. I don’t want to step out, or be with ANYONE else, but I don’t know what to do. I shouldn’t ask if it is wrong to cheat on your wife if she stops giving you some. The question should be, am I justified in cheating?
Thanks.
Signed, FRUSTRATED"


Brehs... Tell me grown ass married men don't think like this nor do this

 

[Colicat]

Only thing that popped in my head:

"Who's making love to yo ole lady? While you are out making love?"

 

[Saiyajin]

no and even if your getting it on the regular its ok if you cheat (if you're a man)

 

[freetroit]

its either cheat or let this woman kill your spirit

Women dont get it. You playing with a mans essence of himself when you do these things

I guess the ladies think he should just turn into a bytch and accept an unfaithful wife

Yes she is unfaithful even if she not fukking another dude

 

[Rawtid]

My homeboy, God bless his heart, hasn't had sex with his wife in YEARS. Their children are 15 and 13 and she stopped when the oldest was like 3 or 4. No head on his birthday, fathers day ass or NOTHING. I told him to leave her ass a long time ago, especially while he was unemployed but he's in it for his kids. shyt is completely unacceptable but every marriage is different so it's easy to say what to do from the outside looking in.

 

[Colicat]

its either cheat or let this woman kill your spirit

Women dont get it. You playing with a mans essence

Why are those the only options

Sex is a man's essence?!

 

[Ashley Banks]

Yes, it's wrong.

 

[It is a mystery]

if its a girlfriend then whatever
if its a wife then till death do us part

 

[Colicat]

Yes, it's wrong.

Do you think the wife is wrong for withholding sex (no matter the reasoning behind it)?

 

[DIMES]

no and even if your getting it on the regular its ok if you cheat (if you're a man)

You would cheat on your wife?

 

[ZoeGod]

Dude tried everything and she still won't have sex. I guess he is justified to have a mistress and see how far it goes.

 

[DIMES]

The problem is with the wife though.

She's obligated as her duty of the wife to rarely refuse her man.

 

[Colicat]

Dude tried everything and she still won't have sex. I guess he is justified to have a mistress and see how far it goes.

Justified? There is no justification for cheating... Get a divorce if nothing works

 

[Ashley Banks]

Do you think the wife is wrong for withholding sex (no matter the reasoning behind it)?

Yes, unless it's a medical condition or something. But it doesn't excuse his cheating.

 

[Colicat]

The problem is with the wife though.

She's obligated as her duty of the wife to rarely refuse her man.

What if she is having performance anxiety?