Cel 510 kid ados forever
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Is it bad that your born out of wedlock
Is kids being born out of Wedlock as big a problem as people make it.
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Champagne Kudo
Shyness Boy
Not at all
Never understood why people cared so much either.
Never understood why people cared so much either.
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kids belong to their community
i'm daddy to all the brats all the brats are my children
telegony yo
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i'm daddy to all the brats all the brats are my children
telegony yo
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It's a financial burden for single parents.
A psychological crutch for the child.
And the cancerous glue that holds bitter exs together.
Not my problem tho... so why should I care?
A psychological crutch for the child.
And the cancerous glue that holds bitter exs together.
Not my problem tho... so why should I care?
It's not that it necessarily results in bad people..... but it does create a ....disadvantage for the next generation.
Without an example of what a male/female marriage and parenting dynamic in home and 24/7 folks are more likely to look to other outlets for information and a template for what it should be like.
Think how many people raised by unmarried parents or single parent homes also want to replicate that? Many don't. They usually STILL seek a marriage of their own despite their parents choices.
Enter moves, music, other people they don't know well. ..it yields people without the tools or insight to function successfully in the dynamics they desire, which equals hurt people and suffering families or communities.
It's not right or wrong, but it's not without consequence.
Without an example of what a male/female marriage and parenting dynamic in home and 24/7 folks are more likely to look to other outlets for information and a template for what it should be like.
Think how many people raised by unmarried parents or single parent homes also want to replicate that? Many don't. They usually STILL seek a marriage of their own despite their parents choices.
Enter moves, music, other people they don't know well. ..it yields people without the tools or insight to function successfully in the dynamics they desire, which equals hurt people and suffering families or communities.
It's not right or wrong, but it's not without consequence.
mortuus est
Veteran
well, its a sin 
If you are not married you are by definition a single parent. Either you're married or you're single. You can be raised by two single parents.....but two singles often doesn't mean 50/50.
No. I always thought it was stupid trope used by white people to denigrate black people without appearing "racist".
Assuming both parents are in the childs life, please tell me what the difference is between
1) parents with children born out of wedlock
2) divorced parents with children
The two make up I'd say about 70-75% of the current parenting landscape.
I couldn't even tell you how many white kids I knew growing up who either had divorced parents or were raised by step parents. Hint: It was WAY over 50% probably more like 80%. When I was in the 11th-12th grade most of my white friends' parents were separated.
Assuming both parents are in the childs life, please tell me what the difference is between
1) parents with children born out of wedlock
2) divorced parents with children
The two make up I'd say about 70-75% of the current parenting landscape.
I couldn't even tell you how many white kids I knew growing up who either had divorced parents or were raised by step parents. Hint: It was WAY over 50% probably more like 80%. When I was in the 11th-12th grade most of my white friends' parents were separated.
By the legal definition of the word single yes you're right.
If they live together and carry themselves as a couple it's no different from a marriage minus legal paperwork and tax deduction and asset dividing when. You break-up.
feelosofer
#ninergang
Yes it is.
It can be a problem but I see it is becoming a problem that is less exclusive to our community. All them white kids on Teen Mom and Sixteen and pregnant.
70 percent of black children are born out of wedlock in the black community, and dont get me started on the affects that have on the children, so yes it is a big problem 