Is life more fun if you're a fukking a$$hole?

[Non Sequitur]

You catch more flies with honey than vinegar

 

[VerbalIntercourse]

You catch more flies with honey than vinegar

Not at the jobsite my friend.

 

[Non Sequitur]

Not at the jobsite my friend.

I'm not saying be a pushover...just be assertive and pleasant. That always goes over better than being an aggressive dikkhead in just about any setting, because you can get what you want without alienating people.

 

[The Jewnited States]

In fact, it's the opposite...

I have noticed that people are actually hesitant to approach me...I always have to make the first move to let people know I am not an eminent threat...

The few friends I have are super friendly individuals who did not feel intimidated by me, and those are the kind of people I prefer to keep in my life...

All that "rah rah rah" is a waste of time and energy...If you make a mistake, you own up to it, and accept any reasonable consequences...

If someone makes a mistake towards you, 1) you decide if going to war is really worth it, is the fight worth the glory? 2) If you chose not to fight, let it go, and understand the problem is with them and not you 3) If you chose to fight, there is no reason for any "rah rah rah," stay calm and destroy them while they still think you are a friend...Fight within your own terms...

Screaming and crying and all that emotional display is a sign of loss of control...

In some cases it's a defence mechanism to appear tough, but deep down inside you know you are scared, and you don't really want any really issues...

It's like when a leopard catches a baboon alone, the baboon will start yelling and screaming, but the leopard stays calm and stealthy, because it knows that baboon is dinner...

Stay cool...

i go through the same thought process

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

i'm an astral a$$hole

i get cretins and then levitate back into limbo

 

[360dagod]

lol i try to be an a$$hole but that only works when someone has done me wrong. i cant be an a$$hole to people that havent' done me wrong. if i am my conscience will bother me to no end. but u let a person fucck with me, ooooooo only jesus christ can come down and save them from me

Im the same way.....

Strong principles+genuine conscience=a good human being....

Im the nicest person until I feel I have been taken advantage of...

I give everyone a long rope...When I say Im done,your best bet is to leave me alone at all levels...

Im the patient fisherman...I just watch and observe flaws that I can bother and just make someone want to cry...

But I dont like to be like that...

I love everyone

 

[AllHolosEve]

people call me an a$$hole all the t!me cause ! really dont g!ve a fukk & at t!mes !m brutally honest & some people cant handle the truth... ! tend to use cr!t!cal log!c to destroy peoples op!n!ons & !m also h!ghly sarcast!c.... !t can go both ways but a lot of truth !s sa!d !n jest...

! dont do !t for fun but ! dont l!ve my l!fe to stroke peoples egos & ! cant deny tak!n sat!sfact!on !n !t somet!mes.... !f !t a!nt a ch!ld, fukk they feel!ns....

 

[YoNoSe]

If you have to become an a$$hole, you're not really an a$$hole. You're just a great fukkin actor.