Is she right? Do we really love toxic women?

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I think she is. Every time another man has told me about the woman they loved the most, she wasn’t the submissive, treat him like a king type of woman. Many women have supported men, cooked, been ride or die, and been left for a woman who didn’t do those things.



I think we eventually grow out of it, but be careful not to get the toxic ones pregnant.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Didn't watch but of course ya'll do.
Both sides do.

That’s why ya'll be in horrible relationships, run towards horrible relationships and constantly post about horrible relationships and then viciously attack people who suggest you should do otherwise.

People love the dysfunction because they literally have nothing else going on in their lives.

 

[ba'al]

I didn't even click play. No I don't like toxic people. View them as a mental and social burden. I usually go no contact with toxic people. I value my peace of mind. fukk her.

It's not that deep men are simple if you a broad and you throw p*ssy hole at most dude he don't care about your personality whether you're toxic or straight laced.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

No but women especially black women love "toxic" men.

 

[Sbp]

fukk no

 

[ba'al]

I think she is. Every time another man has told me about the woman they loved the most, she wasn’t the submissive, treat him like a king type of woman. Many women have supported men, cooked, been ride or die, and been left for a woman who didn’t do those things.

Also the bold is because that's most of the dating market selfish individuals who are out for themselves who are in their thirties talking about some "toxic" and than try to justify their shytty behavior by saying men like this from us. No bytch the thug nikkas you attracted to like that. Even they don't like it you just remind them of their masculine ass momma. Thats why those relationships don't last very long despite starting off hot.

shyt is embrassing. But you a sellout if you make bread and start dissociating with these nikkas.

 

[Elim Garak]

I think she's somewhat misinterpreting it, but the basics are correct.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Nah

It’s just most people toxic these days… hard to avoid em or not be transformed by them

Got to wait forever for a non-toxic chick out here… unless you got a passport

 

[Vandelay]

There's some truth to it. I don't think it's because we explicitly like toxic people, but rejection, thinking "you're" the problem, and thinking you can change someone can kinda have you holding on to something you shouldn't.

I got sprung and loved some chicks that did me absolutely dirty, thinking that they would come around. I usually/used to get it fukked up because the moment some did some shady shyt, I'd cut them off. But then they'd apologize or say it was a miscommunication, which bought them some benefit of the doubt, but then they'd double down and do something even more fukked up... It was a stupid cycle I went through... and sometimes still go through, but the slack is a lot less now.

Men and women both do this though. As I get older, I realize we're both on the same bullshyt.

 

[VegetasHairline]

One star for posting bird babble!

 

[skyrunner1]

I think she's somewhat misinterpreting it, but the basics are correct.

I think brehs put up with more for their physical ideal..

Actually that and if she bout it in bed room, check off his boxes and that chemistry is right.. a lot of brehs will overlook other things.. I seen it too many times, even from brehs who are inherently HOH..

Might look like one thing on outside tho

 

[Belize King]

 

[Burned Verses]

No clicks but she looks annoying so I’m guessing she’s projecting her experience with negroe simps on men in general. Probably just wishful thinking for insufferable women.

 

[The Pledge]

Yes I do

 

[lowkey0z]

just going off of the thread title, not watching lol

i wouldn't call it loving toxic women, i think a lot of dudes are down bad and get stuck in that nice guy abyss as soon as they get some play, especially if she's an 8 and up

the same way a woman will stay with dudes who constantly shyt on them cuz they got paper, won the genetic lottery, or both

fukked up on both sides