Is Social Media Making Black Relationships More Dysfunctional or Just Exposing Reality?

Is Social Media Making Black Relationships More Dysfunctional?

  • Yes!

    Votes: 33 60.0%
  • No, just exposing reality.

    Votes: 22 40.0%

  • Total voters
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Brolic

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I disagree, It's pretty clear we are supposed to be in relationships. Pop culture is just telling you the opposite and promoting a life partner needs to supply all the needs that you are really supposed to get from community.

Pop culture done made real shyt corny and corny shyt cool
Idk why you’d even responded to that bullshyt.
That woman is a retired sex worker. One of the biggest reasons why the black community is because there’s no real relationships.
Just a bunch of women having hook ups or short term relationships with low quality men.
Then having babies and not raising them.

Social media definitely exacerbates the issue because its a bunch of dysfunctional women who made poor decisions giving bad advice and pretending that they’re doing well without a man.

Then on the other side there’s a bunch of c00ns and weirdos who listen to people like Fresh & Fit and Andrew Tate.
 

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All relationships are falling apart because we're not supposed to be in relationships in the first place.

BP swear they are the only people with "issues." This is literally happening all over the globe.
what's your idea of family again... I know you're not into the white man's idea of "monogamy" and neither am I.
 

Wild self

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Idk why you’d even responded to that bullshyt.
That woman is a retired sex worker. One of the biggest reasons why the black community is because there’s no real relationships.
Just a bunch of women having hook ups or short term relationships with low quality men.
Then having babies and not raising them.

Social media definitely exacerbates the issue because its a bunch of dysfunctional women who made poor decisions giving bad advice and pretending that they’re doing well without a man.

Then on the other side there’s a bunch of c00ns and weirdos who listen to people like Fresh & Fit and Andrew Tate.

Everyone chasing the Puffy or Birdman fraudulent luxury lifestyle, trying to buy Euro cars and stunt in clubs with the latest jewelry and priced out outfits. That is the stem of unhappiness: excess materialism ruined black relationships. Music videos and IG images just threw those deal relationships into the water.
 

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I think it leads to a bleak future. It’s not really exposing anything people in the community wasn’t aware as much as it’s putting it on display and making it the focus.

And, more disturbing than that, offering solutions. You’re not gonna solve anyone’s problems over social media.

Truth is, not everyone is gonna solve their problems in general and there is more than one way to handle a situation. But, when you have pseudo intellectual conversations going on and their focus being on trivial matters, it’s a distraction.
 

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Problem with social media so called relationship gurus, is 95% of them are not in relationships and constantly in and out of fail relationships because of their own bad decisions..,.

The sad part about it, black folks actually listen to these failures..
 

Wild self

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NO.

Women been complaining about black men ON MASS MEDIA/MAINSTREAM MEDIA for DECADES.

Moreover, their take on things is the prevalent one in academia - and from their flows policies and then laws and then enforcement.

Folks wondering why they gotta pay so much for child support, and how a man can end up in jail for not being able to pay in - while women get all types of Federal, State, Country, and City help?

THAT'S POLICY. That's government employees money. That's tax money. That's enforcement by the police.

Let's not talk false paternity.
Let's not talk false rape.
Let's not talk about only fans.
Let's not go to the extremes.

Let's talk about a good # of broads expecting cats to come out the pocket, and got the nerve to public shame him if he doesn't meet the criteria.

As soon as a few brothers start comparing notes and making noise about what they going through now these broads be on some SHUT IT DOWN.

Oprah got a whole damn network on Cable TV.
Every comedy show.
Every movie
A whole lot of songs.

And when we push back, it's misogyny!!!?!!?

And at best we got a couple of podcasts of Patrice O'Neal and a few clips of Kevin Samuels. Both of whom are dead....

NO.

Say no to this "both sides" narrative, and "y'all aint' talking reality".

To use their term, they're gaslighting broughams.

These women are pushing a FALSE NARRATIVE that the game ain't been messed up.

Now they're getting exposed, and it needs to continue. We need more of it.

The mental emancipation of (black) men not being simps anymore, is gonna rock the economy to the core.
 
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