Are you sure? Why wouldn't you assume that he is content with you, the prize he has been chasing for some time, and wouldn't want to risk losing you over random p*ssy?No, it's not about that. It's about self control. You know the whole, I wouldn't go out looking to cheat but if a girl feel on top of me then
So it was a matter of more extroverted, more opportunity, more likely to cheat? That was the thought process.
Is the fact that a guy is really outgoing a sign that he's likely to cheat?
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Ms.CuriousCat
All Star
Personality I suppose. Right or wrong we tend to associate loudness or extroversion with flakiness and disloyalty whereas the quiet, deeper thinkers are dependable and safe.
You guys combined have more relationship experience than any group of people I've met ergo I thought you'd give enough data to reasonably justify or dismiss my assumption.
And the thought that your looks/personality etc. might not be enough to keep him from cheating doesn't play a role in your indecisiveness at all?
Ms.CuriousCat
All Star
lol no, I am pretty comfortable with my looks and personality alhamdulillah.
Do you think if you got cheated on it would be because you weren't good enough or good looking enough?
No, but I think that if you worry about getting cheated on those thoughts play a role.
Ms.CuriousCat
All Star
When a person gets cheated by their spouse I never blame them for not doing something or the other person for tempting them. Ultimately they made their choice to soil the relationship when they could have just had a clean break.
To me it's about loyalty not about who looks how or does what. I thought everyone saw it like this.
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
I thought the quiet type was my type until this guy flipped the script on me. I always found loud guys annoying before and now it's "cute?"
@Dwolf I'm rubber you're glue
notes, ms curious cat wavering to start using the Long con game.
of running with the cheater to deflect blame.
after, she is lost forever and she is on take mode.
note to self:
ms curious cat is just using this forum as a discoveryzone.
to fuel her quest to take advantage of the cheater swag male, to effectively take.
Art Barr
Art Barr
INVADING SOHH CHAMPION
all females are the same.
on some roster builder take shyt, cause they think their cooch is worth more than a nikka's dills.
y'all always complaining about the nikka.
who really don't like you.
which is a fake sympathy pool party.
to mask y'all being on the take.
after, you set yourself for L'S.
to, hopefully reel in some spoils on the long con.
that will never possibly come.
I ain't even a religious guy.
yet, that shyt is the devil as the snake.
disguised as GOD'S wisest creature penetrating eve.
eve fukked't with the devil knowing it was the devil.
fukking up sanctuary in Eden.
all based on a backup plan, to say not all of god's wisest creature were great.
When, the only a$$hole was eve.
who let the devil fukk and had simp ass Adam believe he was the father.
of that Bain of a child for the devil, Cain.
I ain't a super religious dude, but that first bible story.
says everything about females and what level of bullshyt.
females are generally on.
y'all sellout your virtue for the most completely mundane bullshyt.
then, try to hide that shyt.
you not foolin, the real nikka named:
Art Barr
on some roster builder take shyt, cause they think their cooch is worth more than a nikka's dills.
y'all always complaining about the nikka.
who really don't like you.
which is a fake sympathy pool party.
to mask y'all being on the take.
after, you set yourself for L'S.
to, hopefully reel in some spoils on the long con.
that will never possibly come.
I ain't even a religious guy.
yet, that shyt is the devil as the snake.
disguised as GOD'S wisest creature penetrating eve.
eve fukked't with the devil knowing it was the devil.
fukking up sanctuary in Eden.
all based on a backup plan, to say not all of god's wisest creature were great.
When, the only a$$hole was eve.
who let the devil fukk and had simp ass Adam believe he was the father.
of that Bain of a child for the devil, Cain.
I ain't a super religious dude, but that first bible story.
says everything about females and what level of bullshyt.
females are generally on.
y'all sellout your virtue for the most completely mundane bullshyt.
then, try to hide that shyt.
you not foolin, the real nikka named:
Art Barr
How many nikkas is that honest though? Men be lying like a mafuka when tellin bytches what we really want...women get brainwashed by nikkas lyin about what they look for in a woman so much,its hard to even blame em for insisting they have the answers....she probably think its something wrong with you when you told her that u didn't care about that shyt "No noooo bu bu but all men love a woman who cooks breakfast
You're right tho! I will admit, i waited too long to realize and then voice that my own needs weren't being met, b/c she was operating under the assumption of shyt that men like/value. Why do they operate like that? B/c like u said, most dudes are too p*ssy
It varies obviously,but a woman who I don't have to talk to every damn day,a head doctor,can tell when shes being annoying and adjust,treat you like grandma but don't baby you,aggresive sexually and when you least expect it
,a woman who basically acts like a sidechick early on...saying some of this shyt to a woman when you first meet em,and tellin em shyt like "I need my space
" is liable to run em off and make em think u need space cuz you got other women in the roster still which may or may not be true
...or it might come off vulgar like all you care about is sex,which may or may not be true...not too many dudes gone risk running the puzzy away in order to tell the truth when they want the sex regardless of if you can fulfill they needs long term,cuz we aint thinkin longterm out the gate
...so you get the safe answers when yall ask what we look for in a woman on the first date like "I look for a woman who I can introduce to mama
", "I look for a woman whos funny","I love a woman who can cook"....A lot of relationships don't make it past the point to where nikkas start to get real wit chicks so they just left with the phony answers nikkas gave upfront and think those things are the top answers of men...none of those things are bad answers and I like all those things in a woman but I don't want my woman walkin around thinkin those are the PRIMARY things I want from a chick....women who have longer relationships tend to get to the real answers down the line which helps them in future relationships...women who stay havin them lil 2-3 month stints probally still out here clueless and working off false intel
...it would be nice if nikkas could start givin women the real so they can change and train themselves accordingly......but nah instead we don't and let them remain so damn interchangeable
...then wonder why a good woman is hard to find
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Idk. Ask one of these chicks that deal with hoes. I like classy guys. They'll be able to tell you the techniques but I like my men herp free.
LexDiamonds
Superstar
Whats the age difference between yall