Is The Guy Always The Loser In "Open Relationships"?

[bogey_j]

seems like open relationships always end up as a raw deal for men. the woman is usually out smashing like crazy, while the "boyfriend" is sitting at home watching TV salty as fukk

reading the polyamory board on reddit is wild a lotta broken, insecure people on there. the poly lifestyle never works out

 

[Goodbye World]

Some quotes might bring this thread back to life . Nobody wants to go to trash ass reddit

 

[MaxPain]

Knew a couple success and failure open relationships in the military that I saw lemme get this Chik Fil A first then Ill fill yall in

 

[Paper Boi]

unless he is rich as fukk or has some other type of celebrity, most likely.

 

[Mr. Negative]

nah, especially if there's kids involved.

Guy gets off work, heads straight out, girl is stuck home "babysitting".

Next level is guy convinces girl to bring one of his fukk buddies in as a third, so Girl can go out sometimes, but more often than not guy is just fukking the third while girl still watches the kid.



I've seen this happen 3 times.

 

[TheGreatMTB]

unless the dude is insanely attractive or has a lot of money the woman will win.

simply due to the fact that women are typically pursued...they can typically engage in sex anytime they want

 

[Henri Christophe]

typically, dudes who request open relationships usually got a roster of bytches anyway so theyre definitely not gon be at home being sad and stressin over a bytch.

most regular people usually just cuff and stay faithful to each other.... I dont think chicks are really signing up for open relationships unless they're sex workers or dealing with a guy waaaay above their level

 

[ba'al]

Nah I don't think so and in most monogamous relationship in the states the dude comes off as the loser anyways usually most the talking points in here can equally apply or more so honestly. And a lot of popular tv shows are based around that honestly. And your opinion is based on a damn reddit thread lmao.

 

[Henri Christophe]

in most monogamous relationship in the states the dude comes off as the loser anyways

true

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

If you go by body count then yeah, the man is gonna lose... Horribly... I'm talking 34 unanswered points horrible :Soulglo2:
... So bad they'll just cut over to another game in progress :Wowdreds:





The only way to get a W is to develop romantic feelings with a woman that's much better looking than your polyamoric "partner" and leave officially. And that's only a maybe to be real with it because the old chick may not even get jealous.

 

[87 others]

Open relationships are the most genius way for women to justify being whores and cheat without really cheating.

 

[TinFoilSnapBack]

Nah I don't think so and in most monogamous relationship in the states the dude comes off as the loser anyways usually most the talking points in here can equally apply or more so honestly.

Exactly! At the end of the day, a woman is gonna do what she wants anyway. You might as well get you some new puzzy out of it

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

typically, dudes who request open relationships usually got a roster of bytches anyway so theyre definitely not gon be at home being sad and stressin over a bytch.

most regular people usually just cuff and stay faithful to each other.... I dont think chicks are really signing up for open relationships unless they're sex workers or dealing with a guy waaaay above their level

yeah if the dude requested it then its safe to say he got some side puss already lined up
if the chick the one pushing for it pretty safe to say the man lost

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Poly lifestyle seems to me..

In Seattle I had so many lady friends who were ready to treat me right...the fact that I would have to cut them off for one chick just made me .

Like one I could talk to about music..she knew who stevie ray vaughan was and how he was influenced by Albert King ,worked in mental health..a freak and would get mad I slept after we fukked 3 times .

One gave me messages, great advice, let me spend the night over her place, cooked me dinner.

One bought me a guitar, took me on trips, listens to me..an awesome nice person,

All good sex,and I could tell care about me..helped boost my confidence...I like treating women right and pleasing em when they willing to please me.

I was doing Jiu Jitsu, playing guitar more and the confidence was flowing and it was all types of interesting chicks interested in me...a drummer who does BJJ

To give that up for 1 female and to only be attached to her is

I had one who was a hooker and treated me right, wanted me to be her pimp,was ready to buy a breh some furniture but I had to .....She fukked up from the trauma of abuse, and the heroin ..and tbh I ain't about that pimp lifestyle. Only was thinking about it because I didn't want her ass to be robbed again...sucks black girl raised in sexual abuse and drugs. I legit be having love for more than 1 women...and not on some just fukk shyt.


Was hard letting go....she black but on that fukking heroin..thankfully not injecting..God told me to leave her alone so I had to listen


Staying with 1 female IS NOT FOR ME...it's so many women out there, all different body types,races,different hobbies, personalities...I'm not the type of person who could just settle with one while ignoring all these others...atleast at this point...I might change in 15 years but until then

 

[Gutzman]

Knew a couple success and failure open relationships in the military that I saw lemme get this Chik Fil A first then Ill fill yall in

I noticed youre from my reality. I was from the Chik Fil A reality too.