Is there anyone you call/chat with Every. Single. Day. for hours? Is this too much?

[Existential]

How many years have you known this person? Is this excessive or not?

Only reserved for soulmates or some shyt? I mean, what the fukk is there to talk about for hours each fukking day? That seems a bit much to me, I need some fukking space.

Even if it's soulmate status, it's still like... what the fukk, I know I can talk to you at any time, but I got nothing to say some days, just a quick "I love you" or whatever. I can only see it going that far if I desperately wanted to marry the person or something, not even for just really close boyfriend/girlfriend.

I don't understand that level long distance intimacy. On one hand, I feel kinda envious when I hear people tell me about shyt like that, on the other hand, I also feel like that's too much work. Maybe I need to see how other people view this kind of intimacy so I can get a better sense of things.

 

[Ohene]

i once had somebody like that when I was 19

i'm talking skyping for 7 hours only to get off skype and hop on the phone for 2 hours.
still maintained a deans list gpa too

she broke up with me though. such is life

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I couldn't. That's definitely too much.

 

[Existential]

I couldn't. That's definitely too much.

That's what I'm saying... I don't know how some people have the energy to be so intimate with each other and leave nothing to mystery. It's exhausting to me. Even if I fukking LOVED someone, like goddamn... I still need time to myself.

 

[Dizzle]

I did this a couple years back at a different job while working the night shift. We were friends. Knew her for a few years.

 

[Swiggy]

Transitioned from one person to another seamlessly this year... damnedest shyt. I don't know how I'd be without that hours on day contact.

You learn how to handle someone's bullshyt daily, too. Instead of being annoyed, you learn to filter. Good shyt to prepare you if your goal in life is to be with anyone.

 

[Existential]

Transitioned from one person to another seamlessly this year... damnedest shyt. I don't know how I'd be without that hours on day contact.

You learn how to handle someone's bullshyt daily, too. Instead of being annoyed, you learn to filter. Good shyt to prepare you if your goal in life is to be with anyone.

The thing is, how do you not run out of shyt to say if you're going for hours on end daily? It doesn't matter how interesting you are, a lot of that conversation will end up being repetitive.

 

[Tunez]

I dont even talk to myself everyday

 

[KravenMorehead™]

I guess it depends on the nature of the relationship. I wouldn't mind talking to my wife every single day for hours.

 

[Codeine Crazy]

I text my short every day. Literally every day

she not even my girl. Just a chick im legit friends with

we talk about everything

when you have chemistry with someone its seamless

 

[ADK]

Girl I'm with now... we talk way too much. It is lowkey getting annoying but its not as bad as it used to be since she hits the gym inbetween and I lift.

 

[aXiom]

Nope. Contstant rambling about random shyt sounds taxing and seems like a colossal waste of time.. People be telling me I'm too quick to hang up the phone..

Call, state your need, get answer/response... fukk else you need

If you wanna chill then stop by the crib, if not

I need my alone time.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

Does The Coli count?

 

[jadillac]

this girl I met started calling me everyday soon as I gave her my #. It was like scratching nails for me.


Eventually I just had to flat out tell her , I dont want to talk on the phone everyday, or every other day, or even every few days.

She got mad, but i wasn't tryna be a jerk


I just hate talking on the phone for no real reason, definitely not every day. Face to face is cool, but phone chatting requires me to STOP whatever it is I'm doing. Not to mention, that stuff doesnt happen during a day to require phone convos

 

[Pool_Shark]

I can talk to my mom for hours, that's it.