I can't speak on other families, but I can speak on mine.
Granny #1 got tired of BK winters, sold her NYC place and bought a place in Central Florida. When she passed, NOBODY wanted to be responsible for that mortgage, and no one wanted to live there, and there just wasn't a lot of people wanting to rent.
After trying to hold it down for a a year, nobody wanted to chip on the rent, house got sold for a song.
Granny #2 got tired of BK Winters and bought a place in SW Florida to be around her Mother and Sister that were still living. They passed. So now she's down there alone, don't want to move back North to the cold. Getting on in years, she now needs some nursing care, and then she needs to be in a nursing home. How was she gonna pay for it? Had to do some legal maneuvering to sell off assets so she could apply to Medicaid... Again, sold for a song.
Folks think generational wealth is something that's easy to achieve, and the reason we don't have it is cause "ya'll buying too much weave, Jordans, rims, and flat screens, and taking hoes out to Cheesecake Factory"
but that's not how life moves or the economy moves.
Do you even live in the same city? The same state? Could you? (I know I can't)
Do they even need Front End Developers/Data Scientists in Nacogdoches?
Can you get 5G and fiber where Granny stay?
End of life care is EXPENSIVE, and do you have the type of money for quality care? If you don't the house is getting sold.
You really gonna move Mama into your raggedy apartment? Bathing her and helping her go to the toilet?
Ultimately, the family needs to come together and have a real board meeting.
- End of Life/Nursing home
- Funeral Expenses
- Lawyer Expenses
- Real Estate Taxes
- HOA fees
- Maintenance and Repairs
- Property Mgmt?
And most importanlty what is to be done with the property.
Just cause cats scraped up 3% by cashing out their 401k or got a NACA loan when the interests rates were low, doesn't mean they're cut out to run a real estate business.
Otherwise, this stuff is more internet bird babble.