It’s demoralizing the way black people try and take advantage of someone who helps them financially

[BrothaZay]

b-b-but this isn’t a black thing ! c00n!!

nikka succ my dicc. Yes it is.

I can’t tell y’all how many times I’ve tried to help out my own people, male or female , young or old , and they eventually take that as a sign to try to squeeze out more money from you. I don’t even tell people to pay me back which is crazy. I literally give them the dough and for them to still try and become a user is insane to me. Considering I’m 99% sure no other negro in their life, is willing to help them out financially and not ask for the money back. But instead they’ll take the chance in trying to take advantage knowing there is a risk of alienation or getting cut off completely. And for what ? A couple hundred dollars? Some times less?

At this point not only is it an issue or morals but it’s an INTELLIGENCE issue as well. Yes, I went there

 

[Ghost Utmost]

There's a word for this problem you're having..

The word is "No"

 

[BrothaZay]

There's a word for this problem you're having..

The word is "No"

Thread went over your head like a carry on

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Thread went over your head like a carry on

Or

You like creating yourself a little drama to ponder about Human nature

You're giving money and you're marveling at the result. Which shounds like you do it regularly.

So after time 5 wasn't that enough of an experiment? But you keep going for some reason.

So at this point

1) Stop

Or

2) Hush

 

[ItsPeople]

give them an inch..

I always tell them if you don’t pay me back at the agreed time this can ruin our relationship, then I ask if this is a risk you’re willing to take?

 

[Tair]

I usually loan them money and say, "if you don't pay me back, don't ask me for more." I have a logbook and everything.

Cousin: Tair, can I borrow $600?
Me: Yeah
Cousin (3 months later): Tair, can I borrow $145?
Me: You didn't pay back the $600 you asked for previously.
Cousin: I will pay you back ALL the money, I just need $145 to keep me afloat?
Me: Can't do it until you pay the $600 back.

I don't place any stipulations on it. I just log the money they borrowed and they have to pay it back before asking me for more.

 

[Fill Collins]

A lot of Black folk just can't fukking prioritize

I used to be on that pro-Black tip until i realized the only people worth helping are the ones who A. Live around you and B. Have or are actively trying to get their shyt together

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

There's a word for this problem you're having..

The word is "No"

I was going to say it's a phrase called "the company you keep" . I've given money with no pay backs required and the person still insists on paying back or doing something

Real friends, how many of us

 

[SunZoo]

The people you interact with are reflections of you. Even if you trolling, it's plenty of people that will talk like this all day, pointing the fingers and never asking themselves why they attact so many many unintelligent, low integrity people.

It's your world baby bubba.

 

[Womb Raider]

100% agreed, trolling aside

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

You just a c00n who ain't been no where

 

[BrothaZay]

You just a c00n who ain't been no where

By nowhere you mean I don’t hang with cacs ?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

By nowhere you mean I don’t hang with cacs ?

Or been around them

I used to be of a similar mindset because I grew up in Detroit and all the nicer areas were in where suburbs

Then I moved to Phoenix

 

[CashmereThoughts]

Or been around them

I used to be of a similar mindset because I grew up in Detroit and all the nicer areas were in where suburbs

Then I moved to Phoenix

And the nicer areas in the Phoenix area are the suburbs. Phoenix itself is pretty shytty. A hub for cartels, meth and crime

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

b-b-but this isn’t a black thing ! c00n!!

nikka succ my dicc. Yes it is.

I can’t tell y’all how many times I’ve tried to help out my own people, male or female , young or old , and they eventually take that as a sign to try to squeeze out more money from you. I don’t even tell people to pay me back which is crazy. I literally give them the dough and for them to still try and become a user is insane to me. Considering I’m 99% sure no other negro in their life, is willing to help them out financially and not ask for the money back. But instead they’ll take the chance in trying to take advantage knowing there is a risk of alienation or getting cut off completely. And for what ? A couple hundred dollars? Some times less?

At this point not only is it an issue or morals but it’s an INTELLIGENCE issue as well. Yes, I went there

Its really not just a black thing zay. We were the damn originators tribal cooperative group dynamic. It is in our nature to put the good of the tribe first and foremost. Yes we allowed ourselves collectively to have everything we held dear thoroughly perverted. But just who do u think were the ones watering this demonic seed of selfishness over the centuries? Yeah we gotta be accountable for our own destinies, but come on brah, this shyt aint happen in a vacuum.

Trolling or not(u do sound sincere right now) U spittin though. So hold this rep.