Parents be expecting you to pick up where they may slack off in regards to your younger siblings. Your younger siblings expecting you to be a buffer between them and your parents. And you can't let them down because they are your babies no matter how old they get. They ain't have to go through what us oldest siblings had to go through. We the trial and error kids. We had to learn to be durable real quick. So it's natural that sometimes you see your babies as dumb asses who probably wouldn't know how to tie their shoes if you didn't show them.......because it's true. You get labeled as bossy but your parents put you in that position. You get called overbearing but you've been conditioned to be overprotective.