It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....

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I've been there on the giving and receiving end of that scenario. I cant say I was completely in love but I did love her. Anyway, i ended up having to travel a lot and she wanted me to find another job and I wouldn't and she broke up with me because she didnt like that we were apart so much. Well I spent lord knows how long trying to convince her that me traveling was for the best. Next thing you know she cut me off completely bc she said it hurt too much to talk to me and have to share me with my job. shyt still hurts a little bit but overall im happy being single. I could tell our situation was killing her and plus she was going thru some personal things and I just couldn't be there.
 

DamonDashsRocAFellaChain

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Been on both sides of the spectrum. I thought when I did it, I was doing it to balance out what the first person did to me but no, it made me feel like shyt even more. Best you can do as a man is chalk it up as an L and move forward with your life. If that person wants to come back and make an effort to get in your life then take it from there but don't force it at all.
 

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That's where I am and it makes no sense because I've been talking to more attractive/intelligent women but I can't stop thinking of my ex. I pretty much live at the gym to keep my mind occupied now and I've become a little jaded towards relationships now. I don't really give anyone a chance to know me.
 

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Nah im out here fukin up...

I finally understand that 70/30 rule..and i should learned this when i was a youngin...now a n!gga 30yo and i literally threw away a top notch woman of 6 years for some strange...smh

I Did That With My Last Boyfriend..The Saltiness That Comes After You Ether Yourself Like That :wow: The Way You fukk Up Just Have You Just......:wow:
 

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That's where I am and it makes no sense because I've been talking to more attractive/intelligent women but I can't stop thinking of my ex. I pretty much live at the gym to keep my mind occupied now and I've become a little jaded towards relationships now. I don't really give anyone a chance to know me.

shyt when me and my ex split up, I was fukking chicks who were badder than her shortly after. But they just couldn't compare, shyt was crazy. I would literally be in bed with a bad bytch and after I smashed I'd just lay back and think about my ex, and how we'd sit in bed and talk for hours sometimes.
 
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