Average looking women in their 20s still get pursued hard. Most of still relatively fresh, optimistic, excited about new things.
Older women, especially ones with careers, have been to every restaurant and popular travel destination with their friends. They're older now, heavier, at the least a little jaded by failed relationships and seeing older women with husband. So they feel they dont have time for games.
They want to be pursue and courted now.
And not no Olive Garden. They want to be taking to a place that will impress IG and her friends.
Problem with that is men expect older average women to be very cool, accommodating and easy. We want them to be cool with just grabbing a drink at the bar or coming over to the house for wine and good conversation.
So now after they meetup and he asks her if she's like to come over one day for wine and good conversation, she's appalled.
She responds "You're not going to take me out to a nice dinner or anything?"

Now he's appalled and responds "I thought you would be cool with us chilling and getting to know each other."

Now he would wine and dine a fine 35 year old or even a nice 27 years old. But an 35 average looking chick. No way he's putting out that much effort.
You know people over 35 don't compromise, so they both move on. Alone.
Older women, especially ones with careers, have been to every restaurant and popular travel destination with their friends. They're older now, heavier, at the least a little jaded by failed relationships and seeing older women with husband. So they feel they dont have time for games.
They want to be pursue and courted now.

Problem with that is men expect older average women to be very cool, accommodating and easy. We want them to be cool with just grabbing a drink at the bar or coming over to the house for wine and good conversation.
So now after they meetup and he asks her if she's like to come over one day for wine and good conversation, she's appalled.
She responds "You're not going to take me out to a nice dinner or anything?"

Now he's appalled and responds "I thought you would be cool with us chilling and getting to know each other."

Now he would wine and dine a fine 35 year old or even a nice 27 years old. But an 35 average looking chick. No way he's putting out that much effort.
You know people over 35 don't compromise, so they both move on. Alone.
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