It's time we discuss women hating/resenting their daughters

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Maybe hate is too strong but I can't be the only one that sees how some women treat their daughters. Whether it's resentment towards the child's father, daddy issues of their own, it's prevalent and not hidden. Not just the thread about the mother cutting off her daughter's hair, but you got grown women treating their adult daughters like they've ruined their lives.
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
It's poverty. Poor environments breed destructive mentalities. All the worst traits of men and women are glorified in poor neighborhoods.
You can’t be serious:skip:
Dysfunction knows no class or income:skip:
And nikkas will agree with this:skip:
Poverty MAY be a factor in some equations but not all
Your statement is speaking in absolutes
But it’s thecoli way
Home of dumb-smart nikkas without real world experience :skip::dead:
 

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You can’t be serious:skip:
Dysfunction knows no class or income:skip:
And nikkas will agree with this:skip:
Poverty MAY be a factor in some equations but not all
Your statement is speaking in absolutes
But it’s thecoli way
Home of dumb-smart nikkas without real world experience :skip::dead:

Stop it. Children growing up in stable environments are not treated like this by well-meaning parents.

Being poor isn't just about money. It's a mentality. Where did you grow up?
 

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Nope.

Let them discuss it. With their mothers.

It's weird but it's true I've dated multiple women who's mother were jealous of them. What's with that? They need to accept the state of where they are. Let it go.
They dead ass were also dtf too. When I was younger one of the mothers rubbed my abs down while she hugged me for the first time. Said "oh he's finer in person."

I didn't think anything of it but my girl at the time was pissed and shared a trauma that she went through when she was younger.

Idk if it's me but plenty of mothers have had sex and jerked off their daughters boyfriend. This was just one instance out of a few.. It's sick.
 

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You can’t be serious:skip:
Dysfunction knows no class or income:skip:
And nikkas will agree with this:skip:
Poverty MAY be a factor in some equations but not all
Your statement is speaking in absolutes
But it’s thecoli way
Home of dumb-smart nikkas without real world experience :skip::dead:
I agree.

Stop it. Children growing up in stable environments are not treated like this by well-meaning parents.

Being poor isn't just about money. It's a mentality. Where did you grow up?

Morals , Values and Mindset can beat that. That's how people beat poverty and certain traumas. We all seen dysfunction rich ass families and of course we seen dysfunction broke people.

3rd world countries have plenty of level headed mothers and fathers shyt some of the most level headed folks sometimes.. what's the difference?
 

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A wounded womb hurts the seeds it births to some degree. That truly is the key to what is so wrong with the species but the topic is so deep that most would drown easily when it came to pondering the nature of what I mean and would rather float along unhappily on the surface, ignorant of the deal.
 

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Stop it. Children growing up in stable environments are not treated like this by well-meaning parents.

Being poor isn't just about money. It's a mentality. Where did you grow up?

Politicians frame it as such though. Its a way to get government funding into impoverished neighborhoods.
 

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I agree.



Morals , Values and Mindset can beat that. That's how people beat poverty and certain traumas. We all seen dysfunction rich ass families and of course we seen dysfunction broke people.

3rd world countries have plenty of level headed mothers and fathers shyt some of the most level headed folks sometimes.. what's the difference?

While it happens, it's definitely not easy overcoming the odds in those environments. No matter what, everything you had to endure, seen and experienced, you will carry with you for the rest of your days. You can't shake it off. It takes a strong will to make a man or woman out of yourself if you grew up in a dangerous environment.

As to the second part, there are people who appreciate the little things in life, and on a much deeper level, were fortunate to be surrounded by people who gave positive reinforcement during those tough times.

Brother, I dont have all the answers but it's a start. I love children and cannot fathom what justifies a parent to intentionally harm their own seeds, whether physically or emotionally.
 
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