I've become a straight fukking loser in life

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All I have is a high school diploma
I been working in retail for 6 years. making 12hr(as of now)
I live check to check. I just got paid at 2 this morning and as a right now I only have 200 bucks to my name
I never had a car
I never had my own crib
I dont have a girl or kids
i never had any real money
From 19 to now (25) all I've did was work and I dont have anything to show for it.
I come to work everyday late as hell, my boss was pissed at me today,even though I'm late all the time
I'm unmotivated
I spent so much time and money helping others and now I'm sitting here looking stupid.
I'm fat and out of shape
Old coworkers have moved on to better jobs,cars,cribs,kids and I'm still here doing the same bullshyt
just lost and unhappy and something is telling me to hit the reset button I HAVE TO



I'm on the path to being a straight fukking loser man
 

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No car no girl no place of your own...

Thats not necessarily a bad thing.:patrice:
Those are all things that can cost alot of money on a monthly basis.

And honestly, you have plenty of time. 25 is nothing breh, nothing at all. My oldest brother was locked up at 24, now he's married to a lawyer, owns 3 homes, and they have a household income of well over 300k.

You are in a prime position to start saving a little money but i feel like the number one thing you need to change is your job

Its time to learn a skill breh. You need to get yourself out of retail hell
 

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1. You’ve taken the first step to acknowledge you’re in a shytty situation which is the most important step towards making a change.

2. You’re 25 and still very young so you can still turn it all around. You don’t have any children which is a major plus. If you had child support garnishing your pay check, it would be even worse.

3. There are a few things in life that you can control immediately and that’s your health. Start eating right and working out. I guarantee once you start eating healthy food you’ll save a lot of money and won’t have to worry about living check to check.

4. Now is the time to start looking into trades/apprenticeships. Not all degrees are worth the paper they’re written on. Look into what you’re passionate about and how you can get into the industry.

Believe me, there are a lot of people in your age group who are in the same situation. Start taking control of the things you can affect immediately and work towards bettering your career.
 

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Well, you have nowhere to go but up. Set a small goal. Achieve it, set another small goal, repeat. You’ll feel good about yourself after you achieve a goal. The goal can be anything. The point is to think of something and then do it. You’ll feel good about yourself with every goal achieved.
 

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I've said this before...

When you get into the custom of "bending over backwards" for yourself, you'll reap the rewards and have plenty to share with others.

However, if you constantly go out of your way for others first, even your family....you will always remain behind the 8-ball.
 
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