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You're feeling that emotional jolt to the system by discovering a woman you care about is with another, and now you're being driven by those aftershocks of discomfort. Its a process. I dont like the phrase "move on", because it denotes a lack of humanity thats unreasonable (you just dont simply "forget" about people you love), but you cant put your life on pause over a situation that is currently untenable, and looks like it will potentially become unsalvageable. You have to recognize here that things probably wont work out.

The hard truths are that because of the "issues" between you two (and im sure neither party was perfect) a space was created, and unfortunately another filled that void you both created. I doubt if you yourself can even fully determine with confidence whether you truly care for this girl in earnest, or whether you're simply attached to her, and now you're feeling territorial over another encroaching on "your" space.You cant be overly bitter about this...just do your appropriate grieving, and find positive avenues to develop yourself personally.

Damn, I'm gonna dap this, shyt reads like a "Jerry's Final Thoughts"


Yes I'm sure. We had protection both times. That's his baby I'm sure of it. They way she spoke about kids she made it seem like she wasnt gonna have anymore. So idk. I have to be at my next stop in 30 mins and I didn't even leave yet. I'm just in awe

Okay. I don't wanna see you on Maury this time next year with some heifer talkin bout she's 1500% sure, just look at their matching necklines:merchant:
 

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You're feeling that emotional jolt to the system by discovering a woman you care about is with another, and now you're being driven by those aftershocks of discomfort. Its a process. I dont like the phrase "move on", because it denotes a lack of humanity thats unreasonable (you just dont simply "forget" about people you love), but you cant put your life on pause over a situation that is currently untenable, and looks like it will potentially become unsalvageable. You have to recognize here that things probably wont work out.

The hard truths are that because of the "issues" between you two (and im sure neither party was perfect) a space was created, and unfortunately another filled that void you both created. I doubt if you yourself can even fully determine with confidence whether you truly care for this girl in earnest, or whether you're simply attached to her, and now you're feeling territorial over another encroaching on "your" space.You cant be overly bitter about this...just do your appropriate grieving, and find positive avenues to develop yourself personally.
Spoken so eloquently :wow:
 

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You're feeling that emotional jolt to the system by discovering a woman you care about is with another, and now you're being driven by those aftershocks of discomfort. Its a process. I dont like the phrase "move on", because it denotes a lack of humanity thats unreasonable (you just dont simply "forget" about people you love), but you cant put your life on pause over a situation that is currently untenable, and looks like it will potentially become unsalvageable. You have to recognize here that things probably wont work out.

The hard truths are that because of the "issues" between you two (and im sure neither party was perfect) a space was created, and unfortunately another filled that void you both created. I doubt if you yourself can even fully determine with confidence whether you truly care for this girl in earnest, or whether you're simply attached to her, and now you're feeling territorial over another encroaching on "your" space.You cant be overly bitter about this...just do your appropriate grieving, and find positive avenues to develop yourself personally.

You're right breh.. I need to put this behind me. Its gonna take time but it needs to be done. She's hitting me up right now as I type. I'm not even tell her good bye. I'm just gonna leave it how it is. I can't trust her. I would been better off not messing around with her something told not too but the hopes of having her back was too strong.
 

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I feel you... shyt like that is damn near normal in my life


Best thing you can do is to wait for dude to fukk up the relationship in hopes that you guys stay in touch long enough to run across each other again. Dude sounds a lil bitter and insecure anyways... It's bound to happen eventually


But I wouldn't wait for it. Got to keep it moving, and if fate brings you back to her while you're both single then

And you can always intervene if you want to be a home wrecker :yeshrug:
 
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