Just found out my ex got married....

[O.T.I.S.]

She not supposed to be doing better without me..

Nah j/p. I’m legit happy for her but not gonna lie, it caught me off guard.



I rarely have emotions about people in the past but I addressed them. Came to the conclusion that its for the best. I don’t think I’ll ever get married and I feel like since we were so young, she grew from our relationship.

I got my snoop on a long time ago and dude seemed like a good guy, so I shouldn’t be surprised.

Just still a lil bitter because I’m like now you wanna be a chill person

 

[AB Ziggy]

The fact you're surprised she's doing better than you shows your choice quality in women aint shyt breh.

A great woman would've had their shyt together before you entered her life, and will continue to do after you.

 

[Take It In Blood]

stay off social media and gossipy chatty patty people and this could have been avoided




you hurt yourself

 

[Ghost Utmost]

You only get like 4 good years. At best.

Check in in a few years and see. She'll be finishing up with duke by then.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

It was good, we had cake.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

The fact you're surprised she's doing better than you shows your choice quality in women aint shyt breh.

A great woman would've had their shyt together before you entered her life, and will continue to do after you.

I knew some clown was gonna run in here on that dumb shyt

stay off social media and gossipy chatty patty people and this could have been avoided




you hurt yourself

Nah we got mutual friends. I ain’t been on her shyt in months so one of our friends reminded me she exists still. We not even friends on social media... my decision btw

You only get like 4 good years. At best.

Check in in a few years and see. She'll be finishing up with duke by then.

Which is ironic because this is the reason why I was like

It was good, we had cake.

I had it first


The things we did

 

[Freedman]

OP shares/d that girl

 

[O.T.I.S.]

OP shares/d that girl

She’s no longer my girl tho

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I’m like, I actually saw it a few days ago.

And a couple emotions passed through my mind that I normally never feel..

Was it anger?

Was it jealousy?

Was it bitterness?

None of those are normal to me so I actually sat aside some time to think about it. Almost self counseling...


Then I go back to the reason why we are not together... she’s crazy. I’m crazy but she’s crazier. Then I accepted the fact that there’s a reason we didn’t work and that if she’s “changed” with him, good for her.


I just felt like this would be a good thread to talk about it. I’m cool, a marriage doesn’t mean shyt to me. It’s not going to be the highlight of my life imo. If its her then


Then I remembered that he’s military and still in...


I wish them the best

 

[boriquaking]

Married isnt necessarily better

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

You still love that girl

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

She not supposed to be doing better without me..

Nah j/p. I’m legit happy for her but not gonna lie, it caught me off guard.



I rarely have emotions about people in the past but I addressed them. Came to the conclusion that its for the best. I don’t think I’ll ever get married and I feel like since we were so young, she grew from our relationship.

I got my snoop on a long time ago and dude seemed like a good guy, so I shouldn’t be surprised.

Just still a lil bitter because I’m like now you wanna be a chill person

Man up nikka it was just your turn at that time to smash the p*ssy now it’s the nikka she married turn

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You still love that girl

I would say I have love but not in love anymore and I think it’s vice versa.

We didn’t end on crazy terms.. it was mainly because I was leaving the island.

My tour was over, I was leaving. We both weren’t in a position to where we wanted to marry each other at the moment, so it was what it was

We even still talked for awhile as friends. She had other relationships and so did I (she supposedly went gay after me and had a whole girlfriend )

Last time we texted was a few months ago.

It was the initial wedding shyt that had me like. But we weren’t goin to last anyway.

It was actually worse with my ex in Miami. I don’t do long distance relationships so If I know I’m leaving distance myself.

Then I remembered that if it was other ex’s, I’d probably be even more in my feelings.


Once I checked myself I was good

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Man up nikka it was just your turn at that time to smash the p*ssy now it’s the nikka she married turn

Faxx


I’ve been doing good just not marriage good... even though I got one thats ready

But like I said, I don’t do long distance and not moving 3k miles to marry someone. Plus when I was living right down the street she was acting shy and shyt.

Now you wanna get serious while I’m in another state

 

[Take It In Blood]

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