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Straw Hat Luffy

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how old are you?

I’m 34 and if I look back about 10+ years ago, some of those points I was the same.

You need to do what is the most important thing right now and that’s concentrate on YOU

Study, get your internship sorted and go from there. You can’t help anyone before you help yourself.

Mums told me that

I'm 25... I hear 25 is a critical time in most people lives.
 

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OP..

What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger! What you are going through has been experienced by most us, so don't feel like you are alone...

The good thing with you is that you are still young and living! Also, you are on the right track! You are about to graduate from college and if you stick with the internship as well as start networking while in college, then you may be able to land a good paying job when you graduate..

As for your folks and grandfolks, they are still alive, so that is a blessing!

Your dog will be OK...He or she is still hanging in there, so you can always visit your dog when you get a chance..

Always remember that you have a lot to live for, plus you got your health! There are many people who have it worse than you, so be thankful that you have a chance to live a prosperous and happy life!

Hang in there, stand tall and cheer up!
 

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This is perfect. See if you can step back and realize that figuring your way out of this situation can do nothing but help you in the future. Because, as someone has already said, when it comes to life bringing the bullshyt hammer to smack you across the face with, what you're going through now is nothing. Hopefully this is the worst you have to go through in life, but lets keep it a buck, this is the bare minimum of problems the average person has.


Let's look at the good.

You are in school.
It is your final year.
You obviously do have multiple friends in your life.
Your grandparents are still alive and are well enough mentally to know who you are.
Your mother is still alive and is getting to see her only child finish college as long as you stay on the course.
Your brother(s) got their lives together, got out the hood, getting into the military, gunna make pops (who is still alive) proud even if he is lonely. (let him buy some p*ssy or a dog or get a beer drinking buddy)
Speaking of dogs.... this is the only thing I WILL judge you on. Cmon breh...
You feel all this pressure because you have all these things happening that can change your life for the positive. That's infinitely better than the inverse, which could be feeling pressure because you aren't doing shyt with your life and friends/family (if lucky enough to have them) are starting to slowly distance themselves from you.

I assume you are in your very very early 20s. Whole life in front of you and from what I can tell. Not one single major hurdle to overcome.

Cry if need be, but then wipe those shyts, get back to work, complete school, figure out the things in life that you truly enjoy and if those things can eventually earn you money. If not, keep doing them, but find some other way to earn money in the meantime.

And smack the fukk outta yourself for allowing a first world problem like an old dog being happy to get you down even a little bit. :what:

If you didn't want to be judge, on God, you had to leave that part out. :heh:




All in all, when I was in my early 20s, I would have damn near murdered half the population to have a quarter of what you currently have on top of the possibilities/potential in front of you. Buck up and keep at it.

STOP BEING AFRAID OF SUCCESS!

STOP BEING AFRAID OF FAILURE!

STOP BEING AFRAID OF THE UNKNOWN!

That's it breh. Be well. Because you will be well. :banderas:
 

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Lol these are not real problems.

Come back and make a thread when you get fired from your job and you need to come up with some rent money for the month.

:stopitslime:


Just stay focused. Part of life is acceptance and change. You will lose loved ones and fall out of contact with friends. However you should look to add to your life so that you are not at a loss.
 

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I don't want to give you some bullshyt advice.

Life sucks.

But never give up.
Word... occasionally put on international news or a documentary on current social issues to see how dire the majority of the planet is living.

That'll instantly put into perspective how minor whatever problem your facing really is.
 

BaileyPark31

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Stay strong OP.

Get that education and certs.


Also, maybe u can hook your dad back up with ya momma. They can keep each other company.
 

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Life gets harder but you get mentally stronger.

Don't sweat the small shyt. Especially shyt you can't control. Keep things in perspective.
 
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