Just like @SJUGrad13 I need some manly advice on how to deal with women who...

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Threaten to hit me.

if I say something they don't like, I don't know if they're joking or serious but thecoli told me I always need to check these women or I'll come across as weak, but I need to find a middle ground between coming of as soft/meek/non-confrontational or coming off as a complete psychopath in my response so advice friendly or harsh would be greatly appreciated.

 

[MikelArteta]

Be yourself but be respectful and not hypocritical.

 

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Be yourself but be respectful and not hypocritical.

I don't understand what you mean, how would I come across as a hypocrite if a chick talks about hitting me.

 

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How do you think they expect me to react? Why are they even taking it there? Lord knows if my fist collided with a chicks face the results would be devastating so what the fukk do they really want?

 

[...o3]

well, with the common denominator being you, you might want to check how you speak to women. you need to see that some of the stuff you say or even how you say it, is rubbing them the wrong way.....that or just stop running with women who are so volatile and/or the ones who exudes those alpha female traits. low self esteem chics seems to be more your speed.

 

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well, with the common denominator being you, you might want to check how you speak to women. you need to see that some of the stuff you say or even how you say it, is rubbing them the wrong way.....that or just stop running with women who are so volatile and/or the ones who exudes those alpha female traits. low self esteem chics seems to be more your speed.

Ok I'll give you an example of a time a chick threatened to hit me I was at the gym talking to the girl who works in the cafeteria part after some chit chat she told me she hasn't worked out in ages so I basically told that's she looks like she hasn't either (it was meant to be a joke) but she asked me if I wanted a punch in the face, the reply I wanted to give her was "only if you want to have a who can punch who harder in the face contest" but I opted for the less menacing reply that my fitness would allow me to dodge her attacks because unlike her I haven't been slacking in the gym.

How do you think I handled that? Btw she is by no means overweight she's actually a very attractive girl.

 

[CinnamonTequila]

I think you need to pay attention to the type of women that you have been dealing with...

 

[Arithmetic]

Make it clear from Day 1 that you will not tolerate disrespect.

 

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I think you need to pay attention to the type of women that you have been dealing with...

But if I was more nice and friendly they would walk all over me and Coli brehs would be calling me a cuckold wtf do people want from me ???

 

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Make it clear from Day 1 that you will not tolerate disrespect.

how?

 

[Turbulent]

Ok I'll give you an example of a time a chick threatened to hit me I was at the gym talking to the girl who works in the cafeteria part after some chit chat she told me she hasn't worked out in ages so I basically told that's she looks like she hasn't either (it was meant to be a joke) but she asked me if I wanted a punch in the face, the reply I wanted to give her was "only if you want to have a who can punch who harder in the face contest" but I opted for the less menacing reply that my fitness would allow me to dodge her attacks because unlike her I haven't been slacking in the gym.

How do you think I handled that? Btw she is by no means overweight she's actually a very attractive girl.

shou ld have just said "that wouldn't be a good idea..." and smirk. That way you don't directly say you would hit her but at the same time she wonders if you would. Something similar happenned to me (except she said she wanted to to throw a drink in my face). After i replied the bolded, her whole demeanor changed. Now when she sees me she kinda kisses my ass. Depends on the girl too. But let her know even if it's half jokingly that there would be consequences to her hitting you without spelling it out.

 

[Arithmetic]

how?

You just have to be up front. Let them know how you're feeling them but let them know the disrespect will get them thrown to the bushes. You can do a better job by choosing better woman too.

 

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Ok I'll give you an example of a time a chick threatened to hit me I was at the gym talking to the girl who works in the cafeteria part after some chit chat she told me she hasn't worked out in ages so I basically told that's she looks like she hasn't either (it was meant to be a joke) but she asked me if I wanted a punch in the face, the reply I wanted to give her was "only if you want to have a who can punch who harder in the face contest" but I opted for the less menacing reply that my fitness would allow me to dodge her attacks because unlike her I haven't been slacking in the gym.

How do you think I handled that? Btw she is by no means overweight she's actually a very attractive girl.

You can't go wrong with communication so if you tell her something respectful like " I don't recommend you hitting me", then you did your part in checking her and communicating your likes and dislikes.

My lady was on some other type shyt when I met her so I had to retrain her on how I do like

1. Don't point your finger at me
2. Look at me when you talk and don't show me your back when you talk to me
3. Don't say "whatever" because I view it as disrespectful.
4. Its NO or YES, I don't know wtf "mmmm mmmm " is

I put some advice in that Quick lil Gems for women thread. Like don't talk to a woman with your back against a wall, put her back to the wall, don't kiss a woman with your back on a wall etc. When you hug a chic put your hands on her hips etc.. Don't let a chic hover over you like for instance you laying down and she standing up talking, make the effort to get up and make her sit or you get up and talk. Also try this, in just a regular conversation in bed for example, grab her throat or grab her from behind the neck and look in her eyes, not hard but firm ..do that one time, let her get used to them grips to the neck....also if you talking to her, grab her hips and look her in the eye during conversations....its techniques like this that will train a bytch or smooth a bytch out and get her mind right. Ask her to repeat what you just told her and to start the sentence by stating your first name, ex: "Eric, you said to pass me a pillow and a beer", you can also train her by also letting her hear you state her name in directives, ex: "Mary, you said not to put the toothpaste cap back on after using it". Be consistent, chics like and respond to structure and consistency. You won't ever have to think "she got me fukked up" if you nip things in the bud certain actions or traits.

 

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You can't go wrong with communication so if you tell her something respectful like " I don't recommend you hitting me", then you did your part in checking her and communicating your likes and dislikes.

My lady was on some other type shyt when I met her so I had to retrain her on how I do like

1. Don't point your finger at me
2. Look at me when you talk and don't show me your back when you talk to me
3. Don't say "whatever" because I view it as disrespectful.
4. Its NO or YES, I don't know wtf "mmmm mmmm " is

I put some advice in that Quick lil Gems for women thread. Like don't talk to a woman with your back against a wall, put her back to the wall, don't kiss a woman with your back on a wall etc. When you hug a chic put your hands on her hips etc.. Don't let a chic hover over you like for instance you laying down and she standing up talking, make the effort to get up and make her sit or you get up and talk. Also try this, in just a regular conversation in bed for example, grab her throat or grab her from behind the neck and look in her eyes, not hard but firm ..do that one time, let her get used to them grips to the neck....also if you talking to her, grab her hips and look her in the eye during conversations....its techniques like this that will train a bytch or smooth a bytch out and get her mind right. Ask her to repeat what you just told her and to start the sentence by stating your first name, ex: "Eric, you said to pass me a pillow and a beer", you can also train her by also letting her hear you state her name in directives, ex: "Mary, you said not to put the toothpaste cap back on after using it". Be consistent, chics like and respond to structure and consistency. You won't ever have to think "she got me fukked up" if you nip things in the bud certain actions or traits.

That's some good advice, I'll take it onboard. Thank you.

 

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When I was younger I let a chick disrespect me to the point she felt comfortable enough to get her boyfriend to call my phone telling me to leave her alone. After that I lost it and threw a brick at her it missed her and she ran off but I caught her in the streets a couple hours later she was terrified when she saw me, I barked on her and mushed her in the face. That's the short story lemme know if you want more details.