Ehh, I don't know. We can all spin it any way we want, to make it fit our narrative. But one things for sure, as much noise as we make about the Wade/Whiteside relationship, Wade has always made it his duty to feed Whiteside in his right spots.
They used to joke that Wade basically controlled and guided Whitedside to the rim as if Wade was playing 2k, and Hassan was the player in 2k that Wade was controlling. That's how good Wade was/is(or how good Wade THINKS he is) at finding Whiteside in his spots.
They have whole highlight vids of Wade to Whiteside on youtube. That's how many Alley's Wade gives to Whiteside. I can see why folks would think Spo may have some personal issues with Whiteside, but what has Wade done specifically, or said that was critical of Whiteside?