Lot of chicks literally create elaborate stories for their future and will pick a boy/man to be the supporting cast/husband. Your opinions and wants don’t matter, all that matters is the scenario in her mind. When I was 13 in high school I met a girl who became my friend, and she would always tell me we were going to get married. We weren’t dating, neither of us even feigned boyfriend/girlfriend interest at the time…yet when we hung out she’d tell me what the wedding plans were. Who would be invited. Who wouldn’t be invited. Silverware etc.
Later we started dating in college and the same thing would happen but elevated to the point I got too weirded out. Ended up breaking up but remaining friends. She still doesn’t have the fair tale wedding she’s been planning for 20 years btw.