Ladies can you be with a man who is not willing to cook or clean?

[KinksandCoils]

This older woman I used to work with said her husband didnt cook shyt ever. Not even a sandwich. She said he made a few attempts over the years but he never really cooked basically.

Can you do it?

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Nope, I do most of the cooking and cleaning but my husband cooks and cleans.

 

[The5thLetter]

How was he living before he got w/ me? That's how it'll be after we are together. An adult male living on his own has to do these things for himself so that shouldn't change once in a relationship.

 

[Ashley Banks]

ugh no.

 

[Goddess_Godiva]

shytt, My fiance doesn't cook or clean or do anything remotely close to this ......I guess thats ONE of the many reasons our relationship ain't working out

 

[LA Fisher]

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

shytt, My fiance doesn't cook or clean or do anything remotely close to this ......I guess thats ONE of the many reasons our relationship ain't working out

 

[Killer Instinct]

If my wife doesn't work, I'm not stepping foot in a kitchen unless it's dinner time and my plate is ready. Now is she's sick or it's a special occasion then


If my wife works full time, then I'm willing to compromise on some things.

 

[Rawtid]

As long as he's willing to pay for a maid service and order out when im too tired, I'm good.

 

[Goddess_Godiva]

 

[Deadpool1986]

 

[BillCosbyAteMyHomework]

I don't like the term 'not willing'. There has to be some kind of team effort involved. I don't mind doing it a majority of the time, but he better be willing to order out, or help out if I'm not feeling well, tired etc. I've never been with a guy that was not willing to lend a hand frequently.

 

[Dwolf]

shytt, My fiance doesn't cook or clean or do anything remotely close to this ......I guess thats ONE of the many reasons our relationship ain't working out

Or maybe he just doesnt like you.

 

[Elle Driver]

I prefer it that way.

 

[Raava]

No, I can understand not knowing how to cook, but not willing means you refuse. And who doesn't clean? Its not like people are jumping straight from their parents house to live with a SO. Even then, adults should at least clean up after themselves.