Ladies, if saying Hi to you is harassment, how are we supposed to approach you?

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Since saying "Hello" to you on the street is a breach of your personal space and an affront to your basic Human rights, how exactly should we go about meeting y'all? You know considering how y'all are too scared to approach men you like. What should we say that isn't considered harassment :whoa:
 

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Step 1: Be Attractive
Step 2: Don't be Unattractive.
Step 3: There is no Step 3

I have to generally agree with this. In most cases it's not going to be considered harassment by her if the guy is attractive. Let Chris Brown do some of the things those guys did in that video and the reaction would be totally different.
 

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Step 1: Be Attractive
Step 2: Don't be Unattractive.
Step 3: There is no Step 3

pretty much

I have to generally agree with this. In most cases it's not going to be considered harassment by her if the guy is attractive. Let Chris Brown do some of the things those guys did in that video and the reaction would be totally different.
Your 1st mistake was assuming Chris Brown would have to speak
 
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1. Approach them with the same courtesy and respect that you would like your female family and friends to receive
2. Do not invade their personal space or touch them
3. Do not use crude, vulgar or sexually suggestive language
4. Do not take it personally if they are not interested
5. Do not follow them on foot or in your vehicle
6. Do not try to prevent them from walking away from you
 

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Find the right setting:
-Approach her in social settings, where socializing is expected or normal. Do not approach her when she is in public transportation and looking rushed (because this is a space of high creeper interaction and she won't be able to differentiate you from other creepers) . If she rejects you, ya'll still have the rest of the commute to stew in your awkwardness.
-If she is walking fast on the street, she is trying to get somewhere, let her do so.
-Do not approach her if she is walking by herself at night in a hurried manner and is not in a social setting. She isn't feeling safe at the moment.

Then look at her for cues:
-If she has the "don't bother me" expression or she isn't making eye contact with you, leave her alone.
-If she is in the library or coffee shop and her laptop seems to have an intense project up there, let her focus.
-If she has a wedding ring, leave her alone.
-If she seems relaxed, go for it. If you share a joke with the folks around her and everyone laughs, you can see if she laughs along and assess her interest to socialize a little better.

Don't use creeper language:
-and also, find something to initiate with besides comments about her looks. If she is reading a book or newspaper, discuss something related to that.
-non vulgar jokes/humor put people at ease, use them.
-be respectful. Don't stare at her body either. Ask open ended questions, if she doesnt smile or respond back with warmth, she isn't interested, do not proceed to ask her out at this point.
 

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Quit making it obvious that you're trying to "run game". I was always told that it was attractive how I don't chase women, but rather just be myself. In my experience women like the ones that ain't drooling over them and shyt. I've never really had to spit game before. Just be yourself
 
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