ladies no simp but I'm going through her phone if she go to the bathroom..am i right for that?

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Trust but verify

I agree with this. I can't say it's outrageous to want to sneak and be a little nosey once in a while, but don't have that in the back of your head all the time...if you don't trust someone because of YOUR past, that's a problem you have to work on...it's not the other person's fault. Sometimes overthinking can lead to overreacting and that's a dangerous game to play.
 

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I agree with this. I can't say it's outrageous to want to sneak and be a little nosey once in a while, but don't have that in the back of your head all the time...if you don't trust someone because of YOUR past, that's a problem you have to work on...it's not the other person's fault. Sometimes overthinking can lead to overreacting and that's a dangerous game to play.

In this day and age of social media, i'm pretty sure most people check up on their partner, whether thier facebook, twitter or instagram etc.

Well if your in a car accident , your going to drive much more meticulously and carefully. The same if you were played in the past you won't trust as easily.

Overthinking can lead to mistakes, however that is why a gameplan and patience is needed. Alot of people are great actors/actresses, better imo to find out early than to waste years of your life like many do.
 

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In this day and age of social media, i'm pretty sure most people check up on their partner, whether thier facebook, twitter or instagram etc.

Well if your in a car accident , your going to drive much more meticulously and carefully. The same if you were played in the past you won't trust as easily.

Overthinking can lead to mistakes, however that is why a gameplan and patience is needed. Alot of people are great actors/actresses, better imo to find out early than to waste years of your life like many do.

Yah - but even before social media...there are ways to find out...but you'll really only look if you suspect something, I think.

If I'm comfy, I probably wouldn't bother to check...and I'll probably have the p/w anyway so then I wouldn't feel the need to cause if someone gives you their p/w willingly they aren't really hiding anything (unless they have another acc't or something, but that's just overboard!)
 

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I dont think I would want to do this to my girl or have it done to me. I have no passcodes or lockscreens on my S3. Leave my phone on ringer too, no vibrate. fukk all these other bytches.

Delete those apps brehs, factory reboot
 

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Yah - but even before social media...there are ways to find out...but you'll really only look if you suspect something, I think.

If I'm comfy, I probably wouldn't bother to check...and I'll probably have the p/w anyway so then I wouldn't feel the need to cause if someone gives you their p/w willingly they aren't really hiding anything (unless they have another acc't or something, but that's just overboard!)


Point is if you look once you will continue, it's like a drug.

And It's when your comfortable and least expect it dirt is done.
If someone gives their pw willingly they are hiding something, an extra facebook account the double life.

It's the typical your chick or man feels something is wrong they delete all the lewd text messages on their phone leave the phone upright while they go take a shower, or leave their phone in the car while they go quickly pick up a few groceries etc. while you wait, they know your going to look and that your not going to find anything.

When I was played like a violin there was a hidden facebook as well as one of those hidden text online accounts from a computer to phone :ohlawd:
 

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Point is if you look once you will continue, it's like a drug.

And It's when your comfortable and least expect it dirt is done.
If someone gives their pw willingly they are hiding something, an extra facebook account the double life.

It's the typical your chick or man feels something is wrong they delete all the lewd text messages on their phone leave the phone upright while they go take a shower, or leave their phone in the car while they go quickly pick up a few groceries etc. while you wait, they know your going to look and that your not going to find anything.

When I was played like a violin there was a hidden facebook as well as one of those hidden text online accounts from a computer to phone :ohlawd:

Oh man - that's too much trouble - he can just have my pw I don't care lol
 
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Go to the search iPhone bar on her phone. Type in "Babe"... You'll find out so many things abt your chick. Salute
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People take all the precautions in the world for every other investment...why not a relationship? :ehh:

Those tend to fukk you over the most. :ufdup:


Most men have already test drove multiple times with no seat before they even care about a carfax:youngsabo:..and will plan to take it for a spin with no seatbelt even if the carfax comes back reading "probaly shouldn't drive this piece of shyt:whoa:"...crazy how well risk bein stuck in a situation where we have to trust a woman to raise our kids properly,and have to deal with her for 18 years...but when it come to our emotions its "bytch I don't trust u to not hurt my feelings:childplease:"


With all that saidif you survived a possible deathtrap even just by luck...at some point u need to go through the phone once y'all get to certain level:usure:...or u could always just say "let's swap phones,u look through mines I look through yours:youngsabo:"...if she say :childplease: she hiding something and she a snake...if you not willing to make that offer you probaly ain't shyt,and u either deserve each other if she ain't shyt or u don't deserve her cuz she might be a good woman.:pachaha:
 

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As long as she STD free, who give a fukk
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I have miui rom for my phone.
I toggle a button and my texts and pics are gone until I toggle the button off.
 
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