I've been on Twitter lately and I see a lot of "I know my worth" posts and "If you can't take me at my worse then you don't deserve me at my best" coming from women on my timeline.
One chick (a friend of mine) posted something about how she felt that she "deserved" an athlete, lawyer, or doctor with money.
-She's in her 30's.
-She's not in great shape and isn't particularly attractive.
-She's VERY conservative (a virgin), not very witty and most basic humor goes over her head. When she used to go out w/ me, my ex, and my boys... I'd throw out low-key jokes about how she was going to get smashed that night and EVERYONE would catch them except for her)
I replied back "What makes you so marketable?"
She asked me if I was taking a shot (which I denied), but she never answered with what her great man-keeping qualities were.
My ex just told me that another friend of hers is dating a cage fighter now and so she's starting to work out. Before, she was dating this obese guy. I knew him personally and dude was cool but he was REALLY
He used to go as far as claiming that he didn't eat vegetables. 
According to my ex, this chick gained a LOT of weight while dating this guy and apparently, she was much more attractive and in much better shape before that.
Not the first time I've heard this though. I have a lot of female friends who kind of just fall into a complacent lifestyle once they have a boyfriend. Once they're in a relationship, they kind of just...coast and when it's over, they don't snap back until the next relationship.
Anyway, for the ladies in the Coli with boyfriends or husbands, what would YOU say is the BLUEPRINT for keeping a man once you have one because I'm starting to believe that most chicks that complain about wanting a relationship have NO idea how to keep one once they have it.
...and for the guys, feel free to chime in with what you think it takes for a chick to keep you interested/invested in a relationship.
One chick (a friend of mine) posted something about how she felt that she "deserved" an athlete, lawyer, or doctor with money.
-She's in her 30's.
-She's not in great shape and isn't particularly attractive.
-She's VERY conservative (a virgin), not very witty and most basic humor goes over her head. When she used to go out w/ me, my ex, and my boys... I'd throw out low-key jokes about how she was going to get smashed that night and EVERYONE would catch them except for her)
I replied back "What makes you so marketable?"
She asked me if I was taking a shot (which I denied), but she never answered with what her great man-keeping qualities were.
My ex just told me that another friend of hers is dating a cage fighter now and so she's starting to work out. Before, she was dating this obese guy. I knew him personally and dude was cool but he was REALLY
He used to go as far as claiming that he didn't eat vegetables. According to my ex, this chick gained a LOT of weight while dating this guy and apparently, she was much more attractive and in much better shape before that.
Not the first time I've heard this though. I have a lot of female friends who kind of just fall into a complacent lifestyle once they have a boyfriend. Once they're in a relationship, they kind of just...coast and when it's over, they don't snap back until the next relationship.
Anyway, for the ladies in the Coli with boyfriends or husbands, what would YOU say is the BLUEPRINT for keeping a man once you have one because I'm starting to believe that most chicks that complain about wanting a relationship have NO idea how to keep one once they have it.
...and for the guys, feel free to chime in with what you think it takes for a chick to keep you interested/invested in a relationship.
The legion of Non-pressed Women is growing strong. 