Ladies what do you prefer when being hit on? Subtle or Bold?

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What do you mean by bold? Because people have different definitions for that. I guess I prefer subtle with enough cues for me to know he’s interested. I don’t like super abrasive men who will grab your arm or waist, call you sexy, catcall etc. I prefer to be approached respectfully, strike a bit of conversation and then make a move.
 

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Thanks 4 responding. I was surprised this topic didnt gain much traction yet.
I was looking 4 more responses, you still make a great Point to be taken, I too noticed that.
It is better to be humble a bit in the first approach.
But where does it build enough to make interest? Thats something I wanna know

Anyway...
how do other chicks in here feel about it? :jbhmm:
 

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I like charming men.


"Oh hi miss. Can I help your with you bags?"

"Oh your hair is so beautiful. I saw you from across the room and had to speak with you."

I am a sucker for flattery :wub:

I would rep you if I could. Real nikka response. Charm is always a winner to go to.


But lets add a twist, who would you rather date/hookup/do the most with,
a dude you not feeling at all but got the swag with charm even tho he wack but can make you smile. Or a dude you really feeling almost God like but is a total dikk head rude to everybody just straight grimey?
 

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I prefer more bold types and I'm usually the minority in that. It has to do with being raised in a carribean culture. The men are more upfront. I appreciate that. I don't like wasting time talking just to get a number, get to the point. A man calling me sexy or hot doesn't bother because he's probably thinking worse in his mind. I appreciate honest and direct.
 

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It really depends on the man.
If bold or subtle is already part of his personality/aura
I will pick up on him trying, as opposed to it being natural as breathing
 
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