I don't have a specific answer and these are questions that really have no true answers IMO. There are many traits that some men have that others don't and both can be considered masculine. I can say I hate indecisive men who always defer to me for my opinion or approval. I appreciate taking my thoughts into account, but please don't allow them to become yours as well. I like a man who can make decisions and follow through with them. I'm not going to give you some canned answer. I also dislike passivity, not in terms of violence of course. Men that are too aggressive and quick tempered are a huge turn off to me. All the fighting and rah rah nonsense is gross.
Also, the dudes that run in these threads answering questions directed at females with inflammatory responses are exactly the jealous little bytchmade, feminine, whining ass boys that women talk about when they say vagina envy. It's pathetic really. Nobody's choosing you so now everyone wants thugs

. You seem to think you know what women want I guess because it's not you. Laughable...
Go masturbate and hope you can generate some more testosterone.