Ladies, what frustrates you about men?

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I love my boo but his metabolism gets on my last nerve


He can eat anything: rice, pasta, bread, sweets, gallons of juice then do 10 push ups and his abs are popping :noah:

Of course I have to stare at his plate and pretend my salad is what I really want :aicmon:...

Nawl baby go ahead...I got these steamed vegetables over here that I have to make room for:to:


Is there something that bothers you about men in general? Your man in specific? Let's vent ladies
 

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Always thinking something's wrong but it isn't....LOL. I swear that contributed to my demise of our relationship. He was a little insecure so lol
Not being straight up, guys always say they're straight but let's be honest..........y'all beat around the fukking bush sometimes.
 

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Always thinking something's wrong but it isn't....LOL. I swear that contributed to my demise of our relationship. He was a little insecure so lol
Not being straight up, guys always say they're straight but let's be honest..........y'all beat around the fukking bush sometimes.

They love the "I'm logical and not emotional" narrative...

Dudes go on emotional roller coasters like no other... never are they as stoic as they want to portray
 

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They love the "I'm logical and not emotional" narrative...

Dudes go on emotional roller coasters like no other... never are they as stoic as they want to portray

They're more emotional than us as much as they'd like us to believe the opposite. Male egos are very fragile and dealing with a man like that is a recipe for disaster unless he tackles his issues and works them out.
 

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They're not very intuitive, don't do enough to surprise/romance women, they're not as sensual as I would like either. Sigh, if I had an attentive and romantic man...:to:
 
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They love the "I'm logical and not emotional" narrative...

Dudes go on emotional roller coasters like no other... never are they as stoic as they want to portray
Chalk this up to patriarchy tbh. A lot of dudes don't realize that it hurts them too. We're taught that men are supposed to act like men and men aren't sensitive and men aren't supposed to be soft. Men don't get emotional.

Have you ever dealt with a person that tries to use logic when they're very obviously stupid as fukk? :pachaha: Their arguments make zero sense yet they'll try to fit a circle block into a square hole. It's painful.

I hate men that aren't comfortable with themselves and get so upset when someone else threatens their masculinity. I hate that men are so threatened by femininity. Because showing "feminine traits" is the absolute worse thing in the world you see. They get so ridiculously defensive. You see it everywhere, especially on this website.
 
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