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Ladies, what frustrates you about men?
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I can't stand when men do role reversals. They do something wrong then try and switch the blame. I just got off the phone with a nikka doing that shyt.
Elle Driver
Veteran
They're not very intuitive, don't do enough to surprise/romance women, they're not as sensual as I would like either. Sigh, if I had an attentive and romantic man...
They definitely exist. Piggy backing off that I'll say affectionate men actually frustrate me lol.
Ugh when they ignore what you say, but when another man says the exact same thing it's somehow now gospel.
This might make me sound cold but overly affectionate men are the worst. I need space just like you. I need you to be okay with the fact that I don't want to talk to you every single day. A couple of texts a day should suffice. No, I'm not cheating on you. But I need you to understand that you're not someone I have to check in with all the time.
Used to talk to this guy and he would call me every day even after I told him I hated talking on the phone. He had an issue with that because he said if he's in a relationship he needs to talk to his girlfriend daily.
A. We weren't in a relationship &
B. I deaded that right after because I knew it wasn't going to work.
A relationship shouldn't feel like a chore but if you want to talk everyday and I don't, that's exactly what it'll be to me. Space. Space.
Elle Driver
Veteran
This might make me sound cold but overly affectionate men are the worst. I need space just like you. I need you to be okay with the fact that I don't want to talk to you every single day. A couple of texts a day should suffice. No, I'm not cheating on you. But I need you to understand that you're not someone I have to check in with all the time.
Used to talk to this guy and he would call me every day even after I told him I hated talking on the phone. He had an issue with that because he said if he's in a relationship he needs to talk to his girlfriend daily.
A. We weren't in a relationship &
B. I deaded that right after because I knew it wasn't going to work.
A relationship shouldn't feel like a chore but if you want to talk everyday and I don't, that's exactly what it'll be to me. Space. Space.
Talking on the phone is cool, I'll do that every day, as long as there's no affection all day every day. I just like space. I don't even like cuddling, that shyt is the worst thing to me. I tend to like emotionally closed off men like me as long as they're not stone cold and is mature.
NobodyReally
Superstar
My man hates plays. He tries to go with me but always falls asleep. It's so annoying, I just stopping going with him. I guess you can't do everything together but this is one thing I wish he was interested in because it's important to me.
InDePickWest
Im Not American
Bingo. Alot can dish it out but cant take it. Men are really emotional and fragile mentally but think because they are strong physically thats all that matters---they're tougher.
vicioustalk
Pro
This!!!! What women told men we want a bad boy I have never dated a bad boy in my life I want a guy that has some sort of emotions and not a the characteristics of a drill Sargent.... I'm just saying