Ladies: When does a man crossover to CREEP status in pursuing you?

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Fellas, feel free to comment. I've made a couple of threads on my friend who has a tough time getting a girl. He falls into the same pattern everytime. Ask a woman out and when she's gives an ambigious answer, panics and starts doing dumb stuff. This time he had a class with this woman. They were texting each other but the class ended a couple of weeks ago. Fearing that he might not see her again, he asked her out. She said "I'll think about it" but never gave hIM an answer. He went into full simp mode and created a poster for her. He went to Staples and had it lamInted. Remember, she never gave him an answer about dating him. He wrote her this poem that sounds very similar to 2 Pac's "Rose/Concrete" and had a bunch of flowers on it. He had a mutual friend to try and meet up with her to give her the poster (he doesn't have a car and is struggling with his bills so I don't see how he would take her out anyway). Nonetheless, she told the mutual friend that this was ackward and didn't want the gift. He deleted all of her texts.

Now, obvious to me, this method sending gifts, cards, poetry doesn't work. And it's frustrating watching this niguh simp but ultimately he'll find a way to justifiy it. But my question to the ladies is this: What is the line to you when a man has cross over the line and it becomes creepy. Some women like the pursuit (IF SHE'S ATTRACTED TO HIM) and I get that but when does it get creepy to you?
 
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Only works if the relationship has been established as a couple. Other than that brehs dont simp no matter hoe fine she is to you.

Your boy is taking Ls. Her thinking about it meant a No. Only way to recoup is stop texting her and leave her alone. Let her do all the engaging of conversation. Talk to other girls around her.
 

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He went into full simp mode and created a poster for her. He went to Staples and had it lamented. Remember, she never gave him an answer about dating him. He wrote her this poem that sounds very similar to 2 Pac's "Rose/Concrete" and had a bunch of flowers on it. He had a mutual friend to try and meet up with her to give her the poster (he doesn't have a car and is struggling with his bills so I don't see how he would take her out anyway). Nonetheless, she told the mutual friend that this was ackward and didn't want the gift. He deleted all of her texts.

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breh was in the crib goin through it when he got the news :russ:

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Thats not my definition of a creep tho. ( a creep is a nikka that makes sexual advances too fast)

He seem more obsessed than anything which isnt attractive since they're not even dating .

Your homie needs to find a fair medium when approaching a woman hes interested in.

Plus she's not even interested in him at all so hes going to hold an L if he continues his pursuit of her.
 

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Fellas, feel free to comment. I've made a couple of threads on my friend who has a tough time getting a girl. He falls into the same pattern everytime. Ask a woman out and when she's gives an ambigious answer, panics and starts doing dumb stuff. This time he had a class with this woman. They were texting each other but the class ended a couple of weeks ago. Fearing that he might not see her again, he asked her out. She said "I'll think about it" but never gave hIM an answer. He went into full simp mode and created a poster for her. He went to Staples and had it lamInted. Remember, she never gave him an answer about dating him. He wrote her this poem that sounds very similar to 2 Pac's "Rose/Concrete" and had a bunch of flowers on it. He had a mutual friend to try and meet up with her to give her the poster (he doesn't have a car and is struggling with his bills so I don't see how he would take her out anyway). Nonetheless, she told the mutual friend that this was ackward and didn't want the gift. He deleted all of her texts.

Now, obvious to me, this method sending gifts, cards, poetry doesn't work. And it's frustrating watching this niguh simp but ultimately he'll find a way to justifiy it. But my question to the ladies is this: What is the line to you when a man has cross over the line and it becomes creepy. Some women like the pursuit (IF SHE'S ATTRACTED TO HIM) and I get that but when does it get creepy to you?
He doing to much. Whats up with dude doing to much these dudes let it happen smoothly, remember everything about a women has to be smooth
 

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feel bad for your friend but that shyt is creepy as fukk

doing too much, extra, etc.
 
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