Ladies: Your thoughts on Gay men trying to join a Sorority

[DarlingNikki]

Liking dikk doesn't mean you don't have one anymore.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

That another thing about Trans. How is wearing feminine women clothes, changing you body, acting a certain way, and liking men make you a woman? Those are very superficial changes that are already based on very biased/sexist social concepts. When some trans say "I feel like a woman" I get confuse because they are just reforming sexist/misogynist concepts of what females are stereotypically suppose to be.

Gender roles are "normal" and natural because they coincide with biology, the creation of and nurturing of life, and the basic survival of the human race. That's what built those constructs.

Discrimination, misogyny, misandry, etc. are byproducts of those ideals, but the ideas themselves are basic and hardwired

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Gender roles are "normal" and natural because they coincide with biology, the creation of and nurturing of life, and the basic survival of the human race. That's what built those constructs.

I understand that but some gender roles should be questioned, Like Male emotional intelligence. Men need to be allowed to show emotion as it's just a natural human occurrence. They've done studies that show that this stunts men socially, mentally, psychologically and physically. However, I understand were you're coming from. Dresses are traditionally for and to aid female menstruation.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I understand that but some gender roles should be questioned, Like Male emotional intelligence. Men need to be allowed to show emotion as it's just a natural human occurrence. They've done studies that show that this stunts men socially, mentally, psychologically and physically. However I understand were your coming from. Dresses are traditional for and to aid female menstruation.

It can be challenged, but as men (and some women), we instinctually see uber-emotional men as weak. I don't believe that's social conditioning at work, that's just a visceral reaction that comes from something else

 

[ExcellentNegro]

Bloggers repeated run this story as click-bait. This story is old, poorly vetted, and changes content every few years...like the lighthouse vs. battleship story. First this allegedly happened at Prairie View, then Texas Southern, and now Tennessee State all use the same pictures and video but change the titles. Although the videos appears to be authentic, it was probably some private party where them dudes could act out. The Devine 9 used to have affiliate groups or sweetheart organizations. But they finally disbanded them in 1988. MiAKA stands for Me Interested In AKA. But more like men interesting in fukking the AKA's, not being in the sorority.

Frankly, if dudes wanna act like divas with greek letters, nothing is stopping them from starting their own greek letter organization. Don't get mad at the women for dawning the line on how much of "one of the girls" that they're going to accept from you.

 

[Turbulent]

I mean that is why I'm on the fence, masculinity and femininity and it relation to gender I believe needs to be questioned. Whose to say a man can't like the color pink or act "girly" because they are traditionally in a feminine space. It unfair to put a cap on how men and women should behave. However given the culture context of history and gender bias/discrimination,sororities are rooted in supporting the female( not the feminine) space and cater to women's issues and concerns.

so what if they were dudes who identify as females but can't afford the surgery or the clothes, should they be able to join in that case?

 

[KingTut]

This shyt has been going on for a while now. I remember when I was at an HBCU my first year some dudes tried to pull this shyt

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Why did the mods never move my thread?

 

[darealvelle]

This is an old story, like 5 years old. Funny though; why them gays just form they own fakkitry organization though?

 

[mamba]

 

[Regine Hunter]

NPHC outlawed auxillary groups in 1982.
They can try, but all we're gonna do is laugh at them.


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[Oceanicpuppy]

so what if they were dudes who identify as females but can't afford the surgery or the clothes, should they be able to join in that case?

He is still a man, even with surgery still man but things change and the safety of the post trans needs to be considered. I think people need to get out of frame of mine that Feminine = less of a man. That is not true.