Lady yoked up by her aggressive disabled son

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I’ve worked with students with moderate to more severe mental disabilities just like him. They are unpredictable at times, they don’t like a whole lot of change, and it takes a lot of patience to deal with them.

Unfortunately, he’s already getting too big and strong for his mother to deal with on her own.

This child is no older than preteen to early teens, his mother will likely have to place him in one of those assisted living facilities when he comes of age, because she will not be able to handle him as he becomes older and gets even bigger and stronger.

It’s a blessing to have a physically healthy child that is of sound mental fitness as well. People don’t understand that so much can go wrong.

I’m sure she loves her son dearly, but she’ll have some tough decisions to make soon.
 

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I’ve worked with students with moderate to more severe mental disabilities just like him.

Unfortunately, he’s already getting too big and strong for his mother to deal with on her own.

This child is no older than preteen to early teens, his mother will likely have to place him in one of those assisted living facilities when he comes of age, because she will not be able to handle him as he becomes older and gets even bigger and stronger.

It’s a blessing to have a physically healthy child that of sound mental fitness as well. People don’t understand that so much can go wrong.

I’m sure she loves her son dearly, but she’ll have some tough decisions to make soon.
How much of this could be diet-induced. Or is this all genetics?
 

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How much of this could be diet-induced. Or is this all genetics?
A lot of that is genetics most of the time.

Not all embryos are as healthy as others either.

The mother could have been on certain drugs or medications that also can affect a fetus and chromosomes.

A mother’s age and family history of certain disorders can also play a part.

It could have been any number of factors.
 

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My lady works with autistic young adults. Some of them are aggressive and some are violent.

Like another poster said eloquently, some parents resort to sending their kids to assisted living facilities/group homes because the kids are too much to handle.

I do have some compassion for the parents. It's tough situation to be in and sometimes tough decisions have to be made...
 

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Nahh he gotta go back to the Safe Haven box :camby:

Who wants to do that shyt? :why:
old school mental asylums were created for kids like him.

Its a shame, parents are so short sighted by their new child birht that they underestimate their ability to actually care for their child fulterm. They rationalize it under some "god wont give us what we cant handle" mantra unitl its too late. Cause this level of disablitity is a lifetime commitment, one that extendeds deep into their own retirement years. For example this mother in the clip is playing blissfully ignorant of when her teenager turns into a grown man and grabs a kithcen knife, cause he didnt get enough apple sauce that night.


Furthermore, it willl literally cost that family millions of dollars to care for that dude over his lifetime. Medicaid doesnt cover everything and often doesnt cover to the extent of care that parents desire. Think of the stress this causes on a family, on a marraige, on reitrement plan, etc.


Like another poster said eloquently, some parents resort to sending their kids to assisted living facilities/group homes because the kids are too much to handle.

I do have some compassion for the parents. It's tough situation to be in and sometimes tough decisions have to be made...


Ive got a family memeber that is currently pulling their hair out cause their completley dependednt handicapped "child" is now a grown adult and they got no idea what to do about it. What was once a "blessing in disguise" is anything but that. And they are still reluctant to send the disabled child to a facility. Their disabled child has estranged that relative from their other grown children who realized that their parent's grand solution was to offload the the disbaled, incontinent, nonverbal, adult child onto them and wreck their marraiges/careers/children/etc. :snoop:
 
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Funny enough one of my homies brothers was like this nikka got crazy with him his mom's we was like you aint gonna say nun he was like my dad is home :unimpressed: pops came downstairs and gave that nikka a 5 piece combo no fries and he never acted like that again :dead:
 
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A lot of that is genetics most of the time.

Not all embryos are as healthy as others either.

The mother could have been on certain drugs or medications that also can affect a fetus and chromosomes.

A mother’s age and family history of certain disorders can also play a part.


It could have been any number of factors.
Neurodiversity and other neurological conditions often run in families.
 
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