So I been dating for a few months now and weeded out all the lames, uninteresting, broke and POS guys. But I am still suck (not that its a bad thing lol) with dating three different guys. It's starting to take a toll on me but I like all three of them. Usually at a certain stage I start to like one more than the rest and start exclusively dating them. However I like all three just as much as the next one.
The main problem is time, I only have 2 days off a week and all of them always want to do something. Like this weekend Brian wants to take me to his family vacation house, but Jason wants to go to the go cart track and a little of shopping. Thankfully Devin is out of town (for his cousin wedding, which I had to decline on going to. One because he's leaving today which is a thursday and not coming back until sunday and I have to work. But had I not those would have been 3 different plans to pick from.) so I don't have to worry about him.
The thing is I am NOT sexually active with any of them, I am actually still getting my needs from a ex (I know that's wrong, but that's a whole different story, lets stay on topic.)
I been dating Brian since the beginning of January, I might Devin shortly after around the 20th of January and I actually met Jason the day before Valentines Day.
Brian: 31, software engineer, no children, has his own townhouse in a gated community. He's well spoken, kind of boring, home body. His idea of a good time is a night out to the movies. He comes from a elite family... His mom is a lawyer and dad is a surgeon. His sister is a teacher at a private school and his brother works on capitol hill. He was born into money and is kind of spoil. He wants his way most of the time. I like him because he seems grounded, he knows what he wants and he wants to marry soon.
Devin: 29, Special Police Officer (high level security guard, makes like $65k), 1 child from a previous relationship. His baby mother is married now and moved to another state. He gets his child every other holiday and every summer. He parties a lot. A typically date is usually a happy hour or bar crawl. He's very out going and knows a lot of people. He seems like he doesn't want to be tied down and I think that's why his child mom left because she married shortly after.
Jason : 33, He's a Air Traffic Controller, he adopted his nephew after his sister was arrested (3 year old). He likes to travel and have fun. He took me to Miami in March and he's taking me to Vegas for the fight in May. He's a free spirit and very down to earth. He doesn't want children and he doesn't have a relationship with his parents or siblings. It's really weird, he said the courts contacted him randomly about being a caregiver for his nephew or he was going to the state. He doesn't even know what his sister was arrested and charged for. He said he came from a rough background and hates talking about it. I really think he's the perfect match for me, maybe even my soul mate. But I am just not feeling the family situation. We talked about marriage and he laughed and hinted that none of his family members minus his nephew would be at his wedding. I really want to know what happen but I want to respect his wishes.
At this point I really only have time to date one person and I really dont know who to go with. I am starting summer classes and working full-time during the summer and wont have as much free time. Plus I am over the dating part, I just want to become serious with one person and moving on in life.\
Who do you think is the best fit?
. These men have no idea they are being cuckoled.
. Maybe it is me but if I am getting invited to travel with a woman 3 to 4 months into dating, I would not feel comfortable sleeping with other women like that. Those are all sign of exclusivity. Per poster, she is single 
when I first start prospecting
